Crossdressers Overload!

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Robyn
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Re: Crossdressers Overload!

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Virginia wrote:I can say that in the summer, I love to put on a bikini when I cut the grass or do other work in the yard or on the house. Just an example. Painted toenails is another.
My SO (whom I'm assuming you all know who she is by now) & I got a kick out of this. You often add comic relief to your posts Virginia, which we love! Anyway, she'd like to see a pic of you mowing in a bikini; I simply want to know if you're on a riding mower or if you're using a push mower, lol.

I wouldn't dare tend to our property scantily dressed. Our landscape consists of approximately 400 different species of exotic plants, mostly cacti and succulents and the majority of them bite (wicked thorns). They're poisonous too. Working on the grounds, which is a passion of ours always results in blood shed (for me anyway). We also have many venomous creatures; snakes, tarantulas, scorpions, etc., etc...
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I like what Eilleen said: I did not lose any bit of the man I married.

From the get go, I have always been the way I am with my wife. (hmm -- that sentence is weird) I guess what I am saying is that I have always been a gentle soul, soft, nurturing, emotional, and caring. This is what my wife found attractive in me. My revelation that I am a crossdresser didn't change those aspects of who I am. As my wife likes to say, she has the 'whole' me, not just bits and pieces. And that whole me is 'wholey' hers.

Perhaps because I have been crossdressing for oh so many years it is just a part of me. I don't become super femme or all girly-girl when I'm dressed either way. I am consistently the same person.

Robyn made a comment about the preponderance of gender related porn sites out there. When I did tell my wife about me, she was quite keen to find out more and said that she was going to do some googling. At that point we had one of the most serious talks about crossdressing we ever had. I was quite open abut the fact that, yes, you will see a lot of the nasty underbelly of the 'hobby', but that was not what I was about, or for that matter what your garden variety crossdresser is about. I did admit that there was sexual aspect to my crossdressing, but that it was more from the same angle of wanting to dress and feel sexy for her during our intimate moments.

We are equals in our marriage. Ours is an equality based on the principle of 'two become one' in marriage, and that one-ness creates a synergy

As to wearing a bikini in the yard -- oh to have the body for that

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Hi Robyn,

Well, being a bit camera shy, well not really, but those pictures would probably get me banned from this forum! ..rofl..

We live on a mountain, off a dirt road and we can see - on a clear day - five different mountain ranges; we look down on the Blue Ridge Parkway, too. We are somewhat secluded and in all honesty we have and do (well not today as we are having a heat wave, yesterday it was a balmy -7 and today we are up to 11) anyway we have worked in the yard au natural as well - I can assure you, you will NOT see those activities in pictures. We also have (sorry, any liberals out there) we have a shooting range too. YES, we do wear eye and hearing protection but sometimes not much else. ;)

We have set the yard up so there is not much grass to cut, but what is there takes about an hour or so with my four-wheel drive push mower. I usually do it bare-footed as well as it helps me find flaws in the lawn. I know, I know but I am very careful and the noise of the mower helps keep things like the 6+ foot timber rattler that I came across in the road last year, away -------------- I hope!

Now Virginia in her bathing suit on the boat on the lake - no pictures of that either - yet! I will post a couple of pictures of our property in the photo gallery OK?

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That’s a beautiful piece of property Virgina, no doubt it fulfills your soul. I really like the rock wall in the background… that’s awesome. Wondering how long it extends. We use the natural rock around our area to decorate too. As I previously mentioned, we maintain an ever growing variety of plant species, and we run little rock lined paths through the different sections for upkeep reasons and photo ops. Many of our plants are perennials with incredible, yet rare blooms. Other flowers only last one day so we have to be ready to capture them when they’re on display.

Oh, and everyone in our neck of the woods owns guns too. I haven’t seen any of them shooting without clothes on yet, but then again some of the ranches around here are quite sizable with a lot of privacy… hmm, now I’m wondering about some of those neighbors of ours, lol.
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I can only hope that my wife will go through all that for me one day. :) So you'll have to let us all know how it goes.
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Lily wrote:I can only hope that my wife will go through all that for me one day. :) So you'll have to let us all know how it goes.
It went very well! Robyn was among the prettiest girls there (perhaps I'm a bit biased), and they welcomed us with open arms. They are a very nice group of people and we're honored to have joined their club. :)
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Can I just say that what you did was astonishing. I'm sure it WAS an overload but what I would give for my wife to make the same offer and go through all that for me. You are wonderful. (--)
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Naturally NG boosts my ego by saying I was the prettiest girl there, and perhaps I was in her eyes <3 But in all honesty all the ladies presented themselves beautifully! In fact, there were more than a few who could have easily made the cover of Glamour

And Lily, does your wife have an account on this site yet? If not, she should. I don't get involved with the SOs, but I know it has helped mine a lot.
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She's just come to terms with my CD. I don't think she's ready for the form yet but hopefully some day.
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Hi Robyn

I am happy to hear that you both had a good time. Had a friend who finally convinced her SO to attend a meeting . She was surprised at how "normal" everyone was and that they were quite charming and capable of carrying on intelligent conversations about things other than crossdressing. There were law enforcement people there and an architect a couple of ex-military and a PhD. She said that she was a bit embarrassed for her thoughts prior to meeting everyone. Her description of what she thought would go on was and I quote, "a big dog pile in the middle of the room all night!"
Keep the faith ladies!

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Virginia,

When are people going to realize we are normal except we love to dress as women?, I mean what's the big deal they are just cloths that cover you body.

Most of us dress normal as a women does some of us just like to doll it up a little now and again. ](*,)
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So true! And is it any different than a girl (one of my daughters for example) who prefers to present herself in jeans and a flannel the majority of the time.

... and Virginia, you essentially described the diverse group of people I met last Saturday. All were respectable members of the community, simple as that. Good folk with different and interesting backgrounds.
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