Respecting boundaries

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StormyDixon (SO)
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Re: Respecting boundaries

Post by StormyDixon (SO) »

A slutty skirt barely covers ones butt

Thanks for the feedback everyone, it is much appreciated
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Re: Respecting boundaries

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Paulette wrote: One way to develop a more mature image and dress is though interacting with groups of CDs who gather to dress en femme. Some even meet at accepting restaurants or at events where they would be accepted. The largest such group in the US is the Tri-Ess - The Society for the Second Self.
We attend a group affiliated with Tri-Ess for monthly meetings and events, him more than I. Attending that or another similar group would provide support for Stormy and peer pressure to dress appropriately for her CD.

A woman can look alluring in any length dress or skirt. Slutty leaves little to the imagination, it is advertising of availability.

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Re: Respecting boundaries

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I suggested this to him, let's see how it goes, not really sure how well received it was


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Re: Respecting boundaries

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If you have Netflix, get or download a copy of "Whatever Happened to Baby Jane."

On the other hand, if your spouse knows what she looks like and doesn't care and wants to appear that way in public, then expect her to get hurt, jailed, or killed.

Sorry, but that's what usually happens to those who don't live in a very accepting town.

And even then, what's the common fate of women who dress like that and flaunt it?
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Re: Respecting boundaries

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We talked, and I think we are in a good place. I think he gets it, respecting my comfort level and boundaries equals a much more pleasant experience for both of us. We picked out shoes and a few skirts, without going overboard and without push back on what I suggested.

Fingers crossed he can keep this pace.
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Re: Respecting boundaries

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Sounds good.
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