My wife don't want me dressing in front of her any more.

[JoanneWilliams]

I am so confused, my wife of 20 plus years, has suddenly taken a 360 on my cross dressing. When we first met & I told her about my needing to dress as a woman, she was all for it, in fact, she was the one who got me to go out in public dressed. She encouraged me to take my dressing to new levels, by our 5th year of marriage, she had me wearing panties, bra & pantyhose everyday, when I got up in the morning, she would have a clean set of under garments laid out on the bed for me, to put on under my male work clothes, after I finished my bubble bath. Once I became accustomed to this routine, it was not long after, that all my male underwear, t shirt's & socks vanished, never to be seen again. By year 8 in our marriage, I had shoulder length hair, long finger nails, pencil thin, highly arched eyebrows, pierced ears & a clearly feminine wardrobe, I slept in nightgowns & any pants worn, were women's. I would go to work in slacks, female blouse, pantyhose, a pair of flats, my long, shaped, nails, covered in a high shine clear polish, faux diamond studs in my ears, black mascara on my lashes, lip gloss on my lips & generously sprayed with perfume. On the weekends, I was completely dressed & made up as Joanne & would live as her. I soon lost my job, the human resources department told me I had to stop coming to work dressed like I was & start wearing male clothes & no makeup, I told my wife what I was told, & the next morning, I was sent to work as Joanne, wearing a sweater dress, heels, full makeup, large hoop earrings, my finger nails & toe nails polished bright red, a necklace that read, sissy & carrying a purse that matched my shoes. I was escorted from the building by 10:00a.m. Since then, I have lived full time as Joanne, as the wife in our relationship. My husband, which I was instructed to refer to her as, presents me to all of her friends as her sissy wife, she even invited my friends over & surprised me, when she had me answer the door as Joanne. She sees other men & has even found me a boyfriend, that I spend weekends with, life has been great, up until about 6 months ago, when she started telling me that I needed to start dressing like a man, instead of a mincing pansy. She would treat me so mean, that I started staying at my boyfriends house. When I would come back, she tells me, that she don't want to see me anymore until I go back to being a man. That will never happen, I am happy being Joanne, I just don't know why she changed the way she did.

[Davita]

I see a dom and a sub. Now that you are fully enjoying your feminine side, it makes sense to me to go about undoing it so she can retain control; show her authority over you.

[DonnaT]

You know what they say, it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind. My wife has changed hers several times.

Could be a number of reasons. Are you contributing to the household financially? If not, maybe she see's this as a way to get you back to work.

[Anthony Simon]

She's definitely playing games. I don't know, but I'm reading this as a woman giving you the come on. Has something changed with her lover(s)?

[Eileen (SO)]

This post is total BS, as is her other one. See http://crossdressers-haven.com/forums/v ... 25#p184864" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

Go to a fantasy forum, Joanne, and not waste our time.

Eileen

[Carol Ann]