are most cross dressers heterosexual or bisexual

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Re: are most cross dressers heterosexual or bisexual

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I can only speak for myself and say that, regardless of what I'm wearing, I am male and am attracted only to females.

I also agree with what Anthony Simon said, about there being NO reliable studies or statistics so that anything one might read is just some random opinion of some random person. And the random opinion of this random person is to reserve the right to disbelieve any generalizations, pronouncements, and especially expert conclusions, about any subject.

Also keep in mind that the people commenting on this post will not be a representative sample of cross dressers, so one shouldn't draw too many conclusions from our comments either.
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We are all physically capable of having sexual relations with anyone or anything. But what attracts or repels us has nothing to do with what is physically possible.

Learn what you like and want. Consider how you might feel afterwards, and then go for it or don't.

Asking for permission here, or what others might do is a cop out.
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Yes, sometimes both. [Puts on a CSN&Y CD, clicks through to "Love The One You're With", and refuses to worry about it] ..rofl..
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Alexandria wrote:I have read that most cross dressers are heterosexual. However, I have also read that a high percentage of cross dressers have had or admitted to a sexual experience with another man up to 1/3 of men. I also have read that many cross dressers when dressed are attracted to another male or at least fantasize about this.
I've read the same, but have also read that Kinsey found that about a third of all males have had at least one homosexual experience. And you are not alone among CDs to find that your presentation of the moment affects which gender you are attracted to. I've not been outside while dressed much, except among friends, but then I find my orientation is still toward women. However, I sometimes imagine the body of a childhood boyfriend when making love. (I later found that he'd come out gay - too bad we didn't discover it then, at age 8 or 9.)

Going by the usage figures on porn sites, a great many men are attracted to partially transitioned MTFs - that is, the appearance of a woman with breasts and long hair, and a penis. I find that I am, at times (and boy howdy was that a surprise!) I'd guess that this last orientation is another aspect of attraction being determined by what one wears or how male or female one feels at a given moment.

It's all very confusing if you try to make everything either male or female. Recognizing and accepting what one feels can be difficult, alarming, fearful, disgusting, and wonderful.

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I’m only attracted to females, and have actually had a hard time bonding with men my entire life. I know it’s a bit odd, but I only opt for female doctors and dentist. For whatever reason, I’m just more comfortable with women. However, I have had gay male friends and family members who’ve I’ve done many things with, and a gay masseuse who was a talented professional and did his job expertly as I lay unrobed.

I do recognize if I find someone attractive regardless of their gender, but thinking about intimacy is a whole different story.
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Heterosexual, and not in denial or covertly anything else. If I were a woman I would have to be a lesbian. Men are not appealing to me. Women, on the other hand ...

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Strictly heterosexual. I am man through and through. No thoughts of being with other men when dressed as Requal have ever entered my mind and never will.

My wife loves me for who I am, the man of the house, and accepts my dressing as the caring side of my personality.
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Ditto....Heterosexual. I do believe though that when my feminine feelings become intense and push my masculinity aside along with wanting to wear feminine things and looking nice, I also want my woman to step up and be more assertive so that I can lean on her more and follow her lead and support her and listen to her. When I am wearing dresses hand in hand with that comes the desire to allow my husband (female husband) to be a husband. Women do not want to admit it but for the past several thousand years they have a tendency to do this. Of course women can be quite confident strong and assertive but sometimes it is just not in their nature especially traditional women and it is very difficult for them to be the leader and the rock for their partner.
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Re: are most cross dressers heterosexual or bisexual

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Totally hetero.

I don't feel myself a girl in a man's body. I feel being a very soft man in beautiful women clothes. :lol:

If I had to "feel like a girl" in the bed, if you got it, I would rather do it with my GG "boyfriend". :oops:

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i am a complete newbie at this, but here is my 2 cents. I once did a male friend a favor but not because I wanted him but because he needed it and I trusted him. I was in drab at the time. Now that I am committed to my SO (a woman), there is no way I will be physically intimate with anyone else.

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95% het.

And a switch, depending on what I'm wearing.
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