Do you think that everything on FB is 100% true? Very few women would meet a man under these circumstances. Unless they have no self esteem or are a total sl*t.
Dack wrote:If anyone has suggestions about how to proceed with this in the coming weeks it would be much appreciated.
Thank you, Diana! A big smooch in your direction There are women that would love a CD as a partner, including myself. (Although, way back when, this situation was the furthest from my mind). Primarily, we want a man first.
The 'to good to be true' scenario you've described so far has not had a good ending.
Dack,
Don't let your emotions get in the way of common sense. Instead of a CD loving girlfriend, let's pretend you wanted to buy a puppy. Sounds strange, but follow me.
A seller has a puppy like the type you want, but 'forgets' to respond to text messages. The seller won't give a home address or meet in public, only a hotel room. No friends are allowed to visit where the seller lives.
See the obvious problem here? There seems little chance that meeting this 'woman' only on her terms would come out very well.
Find a CD meeting group and socialize. You never know who you may meet.
I can understand her reluctance to give you, an online stranger her home address just as well as I can understand you wanting it for safety reasons. I think you should meet in public in drab and see how that goes. I wouldn't rush into going to some one I just met house and dressing in their clothes. If after you meet in public a few times then ask about a good hotel near her place where you can stay so you can spend more time with her and get dressed for her. My experience in the past has told me that a lot of people are not the same in person as they are online and a lot of times when comes time for the reality of meeting people don't follow through.
I'd like to add my two cents.
Be careful be wary.
That being said, last year I met a younger girl(23), from a Craigs List ad. I stated I wanted to meet someone, strictly platonic. We emailed a few times and set up date , time and place.
We wound talking, walking and getting coffee at Starbucks. My first time out in a restaurant.
I wanted her assistance and words of wisdom about my dressing. She was a great help. She stressed not overdoing makeup, and having a good attitude, whether I totally passed or not. She was a huge confidence builder and friend. We never did anything sexually or romantic, kissing. We did give each other a big hug. Turns out she thought she always should have been a guy. And so she down dressed quit a bit and could pass as so.
End of story we saw each other a few more times, had dinner out at nice , but casual restaurant.
Which went very well, totally boosted my confidence 200%.
Probably a good thing we no longer see each other, could destroy my marriage.
So take it easy, you could have a wonderful meeting.
Good luck to you.