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Hi Lea
Like you I love my nylon lingerie, especially wearing lingerie. All i can say is that I hope your lingerie brings you a lot of happiness and comfort.
Joan
Like you I love my nylon lingerie, especially wearing lingerie. All i can say is that I hope your lingerie brings you a lot of happiness and comfort.
Joan
Nylon slips and panties, always with lace
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When I began reading this I thought at first that it was a petticoat punishment fantasy until it turned out to be an account of child abuse. I had experiences of reluctantly allowing myself to be spanked by a friend while crossdressed but allowed it to continue because I also enjoyed and encouraged it on most other occassions. The main difference is that I was a young adult and had the power to stop it if I wanted to. Ironically though the times I really didn't want to be spanked but failed to stop it are my some of my strongest and favourite memories of that episode in my life. At the time I felt my friend was taking advantage of me but I have turned the experience into positive memories.
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Lets not confuse abuse with someones fun fantasy. I to was abused, and a deep rage runs within me towards child abusers. Forgiveness toward any abuser is for the victim's benefit, and not the perp. That is the most important thing to remember.
So I concluded that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to enjoy themselves as long as they can. People should eat and drink and enjoy the fruits of there labor, for these are gifts from God.
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I have read your replys and thank you for your understanding. Several small points, No legal action will be taken since I'm 53 yts. and nobody cares what happened then. Nor will they act now. I'm whats known as a pass. Most of the people in this event are either dead or older than me, this wouldf cause confusion since the prime perps are very rich. Money wise. Since I have been cut off by all realeted family ties these would only seem as bad taste " A real man would nerver allowed that to happen to them" well Iwas a child and the adult in me says life goes on, the past is only the image you see in retrospect colerd by the brush of time. I will not allow my past to control my present, I have come to enjoy the feel of nylons on my legs and high heels on my feet. I'm just me, who ever that really is.
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I've also had something that amounts to child abuse - but nothing so physically graphic and horrible. I can kind of remember one of my initial reactions was "how can this person do this to herself?" Because, while it's a terrible thing they're doing to you, as a child you're not responsible - and so can kind of forgive yourself. They can never forgive themselves, because they are responsible (I was abused by my grandmother) - so, then, somewhere they're in this hell forever.
So they can have as much money as they like, as much success in the world, and it still won't help. That's a really terrible thing. I think it would be true for your teenagers too.
So they can have as much money as they like, as much success in the world, and it still won't help. That's a really terrible thing. I think it would be true for your teenagers too.
Socrates: The highest wisdom is to know that you know nothing.
Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
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I guess it's too late to take action. And for your sake I'm glad that you are able to forgive these people, but that's because forgiveness is really for the benefit of the person doing the forgiving.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I would think this sort of thing happens more than people realize. I'd also think that for at least some of your attackers you were not their only victim.
Again my condolences for what happened to you.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I would think this sort of thing happens more than people realize. I'd also think that for at least some of your attackers you were not their only victim.
Again my condolences for what happened to you.
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When I met my wife I would tell her about my horrible childhood and she would always cry. She was raised in a loving caring enviroment, and I was raised in an abusive enviroment. She would come back later and ask me to tell her another "horrible story." I love dressing and whatever horrible experiences I have had will never determine how I treat people now nor will it determine how I feel. You go girl.
Hugs Vivian
Hugs Vivian