On The Way to Becoming Arlene

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ArleneMcCarthy
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Post by ArleneMcCarthy »

My bank accepts me as Arlene even though I have only male credentials. I worked it out with the mangement after I had a conversation endrab and told them of my situation. I ocassionally present as a male when I feel it necessary and sometimes when its isn't, once in a very great while I have the urge to be a boy. 8)
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Post by Vivian »

Arlene
Your wonderful and I am all about hugs for you

Hugs Vivian
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Post by ArleneMcCarthy »

Thank you so much. :)


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Post by Ashley New »

Ah Arlene....one of my favorite people. For those of you who don't know, she is an inspiration to me and the source od my middle name Ashley Arlene New!
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Latanya
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Re: On The Way to Becoming Arlene

Post by Latanya »

hi Arlene i am somewhat new here just read ur intro a good read and happy for you
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Post by ArleneMcCarthy »

Sorry ladies to be tardy in replying.....Hugs latanya and Ashley. I've not been here recently,and I'm sorry that I was away from the site...I'm back for good ! (--) ..|/-
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Re: On The Way to Becoming Arlene

Post by Mikaela »

So nice that you made the right decision to be enfemme all the time. YOLO, so make it worth it!
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Post by ArleneMcCarthy »

thank you darlin, I love living this way.


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Proud LGBT Supporter. I live 24/7 as a non-transitioned woman.ArleneRaquel - My lifestyle is very important to me & I love it and I love the opportunity to meet fellow CD's, & LGBT folks.
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Post by ArleneMcCarthy »

Thank you all for your kind words & encouragement. Btw my homophobic neighbor has mellowed and about 2 months ago said that I looked god. Since that time we have encounter each other about 30 times and he has been cordial, But yesterday he started dinking very in the day a was very, boisterous, not toward moi, but he was mad about something.
Proud LGBT Supporter. I live 24/7 as a non-transitioned woman.ArleneRaquel - My lifestyle is very important to me & I love it and I love the opportunity to meet fellow CD's, & LGBT folks.
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Re: On The Way to Becoming Arlene

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Last week I was dressed enfemme, as I almost always am, when returning home I became involved with two male tenants who were discussing the passing scene, mainly political. The conversation lasted for over an hour and while I was in the minoriry, insofar as view, I felt that the discussion was fruitfull and that moi was well received. The two gentlemen were in their 30's, I believe.
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Post by ArleneMcCarthy »

My homophobic next door neighbor is getting sicker by the minute, he is very scary.
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Post by Anthony Simon »

Is he going to do something? Do you have someone who can help you with that?
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ArleneMcCarthy
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Post by ArleneMcCarthy »

No, I just keep my distance. He is a religious nut. I think, at this stage at least, he is all talk, i hope so. Thank you for your concern.


** NOTE: Inasmuch as Arlene has turned this 'beginnings' topic into a diary / mini-blog of sorts, all posts from this point forward have been merged into her existing Arlenes CD World topic in the A Day In The Life Of A CD/TG forum (where those posts should have been made) and this topic is being locked. [-(


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