How I got started

[Debbie Jean]

Nothing super out of the ordinary I guess, but I got started when I was maybe 5 or 6. The girls in the 'hood would always want to dress me as one of them. I think maybe they picked me from other boys simply because they enjoyed the cute little kisses I was "compelled" (LOL) to steal from them. Yeah, kissing was a really big part of it. I never experienced that stage that all the other little boys went through; namely that of being repulsed by girls. All through my childhood, I always loved the girls, always wanted to be with them. They dressed me in their clothes, from my neck clear down to my toes. Pure heaven! I just loved it, wanted to do it all the time. I had my favorite dresses of course, but I was sensitive enough to want to eventually try on all their things, as I didn't want to slight any of my "girlfriends" (some of them had prettier stuff than others). Much preferred that to playing ball, riding bikes etc.

However I don't regard those experiences as authentic cross dressing simply because I gave all their clothes back when we were done. However in those earlier years I just lived and longed to be "one of the girls". What I regard as true cross dressing came later (after puberty) when I began to accumulate my own "stash". That however should probably be a whole different topic/post.

Since I'm new here, I want some advice as to which forum I should talk about my "true" cross dressing life and how one incident in particular influenced the choice of "Deb" as my name.

talk later, love you all,
Deb

[DonnaT]

If you think it will turn into a blog style history, I'd suggest putting it into A Day In The Life, otherwise put it under Your Beginnings (continued)

[Debbie Jean]

Thanks for the tip, Donna. I'll have to give that a whirl when I get more time.

best regards,
Deb

[Requal Jo]

Thanks for sharing Deb. I too know what is like to be dressed by the girls When young my sisters and their friends dressed me as a girl and took me to the park to play. This went on from 3 years to 6 years old.

Also later in life I truly commenced to cross dressing, now have my own wardrobe and enjoy every second Requal appears.