Loving wife of Julie
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 1:39 am
Way back in 2004 in March and April, there was another Julie (CD) on this forum, now retired. Ironically, that person, Julie, never felt as though she quite fit in with the rest of us. I didn't always support her viewpoints, and her anger was sometimes inappropriately expressed, but I was determined to be her friend. Some here were offended (perhaps rightfully) by her strong language, and others were not as supportive of her agonizing situation as they might have been. I am not taking sides on a war that is long forgotten, but I am sure that very few of us knew that her wife of well over 30 years was very, very ill, and he (Julie) was trying to care for her almost without any help. Julie's beloved wife Kate passed away nearly two decades prematurely, on May 8, 2004, ending what was many years of suffering.
Beauty (retired forum administrator) wrote to me that she made two announcements about Kate's death on the forum, but I am unable to find either of them on our forum now.
We cannot go back and read any of that Julie's posts, because in anger, Julie asked to have them removed, and they were, prior to Kate's passing. I think however, that it is appropriate for us to remember and cherish Julie's success as a loyal caring spouse: until death did they part. It seems equally fitting to remember Julie's beloved wife, Kate.
Hugs,
Bernice
Beauty (retired forum administrator) wrote to me that she made two announcements about Kate's death on the forum, but I am unable to find either of them on our forum now.
We cannot go back and read any of that Julie's posts, because in anger, Julie asked to have them removed, and they were, prior to Kate's passing. I think however, that it is appropriate for us to remember and cherish Julie's success as a loyal caring spouse: until death did they part. It seems equally fitting to remember Julie's beloved wife, Kate.
Hugs,
Bernice