Molly prayers

Lisa(SO) · Post by **Lisa(SO)** » Fri Feb 02, 2007 10:02 pm

This is the hardest post I have ever had to write. I am sedated so bear with me. Molly contracted influenza A (flu). She was rushed to the best children's Hospital in Vermont. They had to put her on a ventilator and all sorts of tubes etc. Wayne and I stayed with her until the end. Molly gave a geat and valliant fight but could not win. The respirator had done too much damage to her little lungs. They had to have her on it to keep the oxygen going through her blood and to her precious organs. This morning we were told that we needed to make a decision of when not if. I threw out my breast milk that i had pumped and Wayne knew I was getting as prepared as possible. We took hand prints for her memory box and I put one on my scrub shirt (I intend to put all the kiddos handprints on there also and ours to frame). I sat in Wayne's lap and we both held her until the end. Thank you for all of the best wishes when she was born 2 weeks ago. We have a new angel among us.

Lisa and Elayne

Jadeanne · Post by **Jadeanne** » Fri Feb 02, 2007 10:46 pm

Lisa and Elayne,

My heart goes out to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jadeanne

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Fri Feb 02, 2007 11:16 pm

We don't have the words, only know that we love you for sharing with us and know that we all feel your grief and shed tears with you. Please know that you are in our thoughts and our hearts.
Love,
Virginia and SL

Lisbeth · Post by **Lisbeth** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 12:04 am

Lisa and Elayne,

My heart is broken for you in this hardest of times. You are in my prayers.
Love, Lisbeth.

Anita · Post by **Anita** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 3:09 am

Lisa and Elayne--
That hurts so much to hear that. I am so sorry for both of you. You have my prayers, and my tears.

Jess(SO) · Post by **Jess(SO)** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 3:51 am

Lisa,

There are no words that I can give you to comfort you, just know that you are being held in the warmth and friendship of us all on the forum.

Jess

Curly(SO) · Post by **Curly(SO)** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 5:50 am

Lisa and Elayne,

I am so sorry, that is devastating news. As Jess said, there are no words, just wish there was. You are in my thoughts and heart also.

With love,
Curly.

Absaroka · Post by **Absaroka** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 9:03 am

Lisa,

As a parent I know that there are no words for a time like this.

I am very sorry for your loss.

Absaroka

Terri(SO) · Post by **Terri(SO)** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 10:35 am

Our thoughts and prayers are with the three of you now.
Love, Terri and Maria

Rikki · Post by **Rikki** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 12:08 pm

Lisa,
My heart and prayers are with you both. My wife and I have been there, we lost our first child to SIDS 24 years ago. There is no worse event in life, nothing more important, nothing that you will remember like this. All I can offer is that you will feel better after a while. Take your time, hold each other tight. And as someone told us, she will always be your little angel watching over you.

With a warm hug,
Rikki

Lydia · Post by **Lydia** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 12:29 pm

Lisa and Elayne,

I join the sisters in deep sympathy for your loss.

Love,

Lydia

Kyra · Post by **Kyra** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:04 pm

I'm deeply sorry to hear such terrible news. Take comfort in knowing you have friends here when needed.

One so small. Lisa and Elayne, I'll keep you in my prayers.
God bless you both.

Sincerely,
Kyra

Stephanie W · Post by **Stephanie W** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:18 pm

Oh Lisa, I'm so sorry for you both. I know nothing I say can take away the pain. Just know you have the love and support of all your friends here.

Stephanie

Maria · Post by **Maria** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 4:43 pm

Lisa and Elayne,

My thoughts and sympathy for your loss.

Maria

Gaven McLaren · Post by **Gaven McLaren** » Sat Feb 03, 2007 7:09 pm

There are no words that will make you feel 100% as it is a great loss for you. Not being a parent I can't even begin to imagine what this feels like. Sorry for your loss and know we are here for you.