Where do you get dressed?

Tell us about the things you like to do, and what you do, when you go out en femme. All other topics will be moved to appropriate forum.

Moderators: KimberlyS, CathyAnn

User avatar
London
Miss Silver Goddess
Posts: 43
Joined: Fri Oct 02, 2009 11:54 am
Location: Ontario, Canada

Where do you get dressed?

Post by London »

For those of you whose neighbours (or family) do not know about your CDing, where do you go to transform from caterpillar to butterfly. If you dress and makeup in your home, then the neighbours will eventually figure it out.

My partner wants to go out pubbing with me as a femme or pick me up in a bar as if I were a stranger =D> . I am not sure where to get dressed in order to do this.

Ideas ladies???

London
User avatar
Absaroka
Miss Diamond Goddess
Posts: 3344
Joined: Fri Feb 04, 2005 8:30 am

Post by Absaroka »

If your partner is comfortable about it you should be able to pull this off, especially at night. You'd be amazed what people aren't really paying attention to.

I don't go out to bars, just for moonlit walks. When the family isn't home it's a simple thing to walk to the car and drive off.

Zari
everything under the sun is in tune
but the sun is eclipsed by the moon
Merinda
Miss Golden Goddess
Posts: 959
Joined: Fri May 28, 2004 11:07 pm
Location: Melbourne Australia

Re: Where do you get dressed?

Post by Merinda »

London wrote:
My partner wants to go out pubbing with me as a femme or pick me up in a bar as if I were a stranger =D> . I am not sure where to get dressed in order to do this.
You lucky girl you =D> ,

I can only dream of the opportunity that you have been given , I always wanted to go to a disco type night club with a group of male escorts , but it never happened.
As Absaroka said , night time is the best time , people are too busy watching television and they cant see much (if anything) out their window.
Just make sure your outside light doesn't switch on , if you have one of those sensor lights.
Merinda
User avatar
DonnaT
Miss Great Goddess
Posts: 8222
Joined: Fri Sep 17, 2004 11:04 am
Location: No. Virginia

Post by DonnaT »

I either get made up and partially dressed at home, then complete the transformation in an empty parking lot, or I will get a hotel room and transform, then have a place to spend the night before driving home.

No one can see the makeup at night, so I'm not worried about the neighbors, not that I worry, but my wife does.
DonnaT
User avatar
London
Miss Silver Goddess
Posts: 43
Joined: Fri Oct 02, 2009 11:54 am
Location: Ontario, Canada

Post by London »

Guess you're right girls. People really don't pay attention. So I should stop worrying.

I have been wearing sexy lingerie occasionally for my partner for over a year now but she only just saw me in a skirt and blouse with falsies a few days ago and it was a big hit. She is wanting to go out with me or pick me up as if we were both lesbians. She will dress up in a woman's business suit with high heals and approach me in a bar. I'll be nice to have the tables turned.

Yesterday she saw me sitting at the table at my computer with my legs crossed (in and unmanly way) and turned slightly to one side. I got a text message on my phone saying "I saw you sitting there girlie like and pictured you dressed up with a short skirt on.". I have ordered a padded girdle to give my hips and bum some shape and a set of C cup silicone breast forms. I think she wants to cop a feel.

Life is getting most interesting. Just need to pluck up the courage to go out on the town.

London
User avatar
MsJoann
Miss Emerald Goddess
Posts: 101
Joined: Wed May 14, 2008 11:00 am
Location: Mystic, Connecticut

Post by MsJoann »

I used to partially dress at home, makeup and all, then head out with sunglasses, to the local hotel parking lot corner (not busy place) and put on the wig and earrings.
My garage is not big enough to where I can close the door once inside, so, I would not want to get out of the truck only to be seen. What I have done is back the truck in, shut the door and walk in to the house.
Especially in the summer months when it stays light until 830 or so. This time of year, it gets dark early so chances of being seen are nil.
These days, there is no need for a wig as my hair falls off my shoulders. Although I am sure some neighbors notice that I dress differently, I still would not like to be outed. I live in a small community and once outed, word would spread like a wildfire.
However ladies, it's a smart thing to have yourself a good alibi if in the event you are seen by a neighbor. I'll just tell them that a bunch of friends go out raising hell dressed as women. It should work!
Good luck ladies!
User avatar
April Rose
Miss Golden Goddess
Posts: 893
Joined: Sat Dec 06, 2008 10:18 pm
Location: Massachusetts

Post by April Rose »

I only dress at home, but I dress every night, with the lights on, and I don't draw the blinds, unless it's cold outside. I have no idea if my neighbors have noticed or not. No one has said anything. But, how do you say to a neighbor, "Say..... I happened to be looking into your window last night and I noticed you were doing the dishes in a dress...." :shock:

Not gonna happen.

I've only been doing this over the last few years, since we became empty nesters. We've been in this neighborhood nearly twenty years, and, over time, our relationship with the neighbors has been cordial, but distant. Suits me just fine.
I am a vessel of the Goddess. Let me express my calling to a feminine life through nurturing love and relatedness.
User avatar
Bernice
Miss Golden Goddess
Posts: 615
Joined: Fri Feb 27, 2004 11:24 pm
Location: Northeast Kansas

Post by Bernice »

April Rose wrote:But, how do you say to a neighbor, "Say..... I happened to be looking into your window last night and I noticed you were doing the dishes in a dress...." :shock:

Not gonna happen.
Oh how I wish that were true. How my neighbor put it was along the lines of "You God[expletive] [expletive] [expletive] [expletive] [expletive] I'm gonna [expletive] [expletive] kill you, you [expletive] freak! How dare you leave a tiny crack at the bottom of your window blinds? [expletive] You!"

That was in 1976, and I still cringe at the thought.

But now I have my own house, and firearms, and consider my home my castle.

Hugs,

Bernice
User avatar
April Rose
Miss Golden Goddess
Posts: 893
Joined: Sat Dec 06, 2008 10:18 pm
Location: Massachusetts

Post by April Rose »

Wow, Bernice. That's really creepy. What did you do?

In 1972 I was living in the Brighton neighborhood of Boston. A neighbor kid must have seen me through a window. It was summer, so the windows were open. I noticed him,squatting down behind a chain link fence, looking right at me with a pair of binoculars. I heard him distinctly when he yelled to someone near him, "There's a queer man in that house!"

I stopped dressing for a while after that, but beyond that there were no repercussions.

But that was a ten year old. What your neighbor, apparently an "adult" did was a clear violation of your 4th amendment rights. In most, if not all, states you could have pressed charges. Of course, as always with folks like us, that would have been awkward. Which is why transgendered people are victims of violence more often than the general poulation.
I am a vessel of the Goddess. Let me express my calling to a feminine life through nurturing love and relatedness.
Kendra Lynn
Miss Emerald Goddess
Posts: 220
Joined: Sat Dec 03, 2005 8:13 am
Location: Silver Spring, Maryland

Where do I "get dressed?"

Post by Kendra Lynn »

Hello all: The simple answer is-- "in my apartment." This means I will have encounters with other residents. Pretty much unavoidable. Most of them have now seen me "dressed" and know what I do. It took a while for some to get used to the idea, and this is supposed to be a "liberal," left leaning sort of place. I have been told there is now only one person really uncomfortable with what I do-- I don't know who that is...
I am still nervous about running into groups of people entering or leaving the building-- this has happened a few times and can be a little unsettling.
But I'd say most of the people who actually live here are now used to my "dressing" and either don't care or are supportive.
Best wishes for the holiday season to everyone!
Peace-- Kendra Lynn ("Hippie cheerleader").
CassandraB
Miss Sapphire Goddess
Posts: 64
Joined: Thu Oct 15, 2009 2:27 pm

Post by CassandraB »

In my bedroom which I make sure my blinds are closed and I have neighbors by.
User avatar
Bernice
Miss Golden Goddess
Posts: 615
Joined: Fri Feb 27, 2004 11:24 pm
Location: Northeast Kansas

Post by Bernice »

I didn't mean to hijack the thread.

Yes, the offender probably did violate my 4th amendment rights (and maybe others also), but what redneck city cop would have cared, back in 1976? Assault is pretty hard to prove without physical evidence. Absent any injuries, it wasn't worth my embarrassment to file a formal complaint.

I didn't exactly grin, but I did simply bear it. This jerk was the same jerk who was beating his GF in the dorm room right next door (the previous school year). I knew he could be dangerously violent. So I simply endured his bucket-mouth and quickly dispensed with trying to educate him, or even to respond at all. He continued to shout epithets for the next several weeks (seemed like several months), but in due time he finally moved out. We didn't miss him at all. And yes, I duct-taped plastic garbage bags to all the window frames, to ensure no repeat invasions.

Given that I kept my wits and did not respond, the whole ordeal was probably much harder on my newlywed bride than on me.

I share this story, because we all share the risk of this kind of incident. It could happen to any of us. Life is not fair. Most of us are not like Virginia, who I'm sure could dismember the SOB with just three fingers.

Don't live in fear, but do stay aware of your surroundings and of the risks, and do avoid allowing yourself to be surprised.

Hugs,

Bernice
Post Reply