Wanting To Go Out En Femme

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Martha G
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Re: Wanting To Go Out En Femme

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Also would love to develop a very womanly walk as well.
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Martha, you make me smile. I truly hope you achieve all you goals as a lady. I'm still struggling with makeup and dress selection, let alone a feminine voice, lol.
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Hi Martha,

You are doing just fine. The best thing is to be comfortable, and enjoy the excitement of going out. And relax (okay that may not be easy) but work towards that. You can do this... BTW you pics show that you won't be attracting attention...meaning you will just be a person out there...go for it...
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Dear Martha,
Martha G wrote:Also would love to develop a very womanly walk as well.
You're 72 Hon, there is no 'womanly walk' anymore, other than shorter strides.

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Heck at your age, Martha, I'd be glad to not be using a walker. :) Also, I'm hoping my legs will still look decent so that I don't have to wear ankle length anything I don't want to.

And walk? Girl.... both sexes have quite a variety of walks and some look good, but even if they don't, the people are getting from point A to point B.
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Re: Wanting To Go Out En Femme

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Heck. I can walk two miles .

Also my legs are still pretty and shapely.

So why not do a nice womanly trot!

This is one 72 year old woman who thinks young and wants to walk young as well!
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Dear Ladies,

Martha claims that she is more into costumes than cross dressing. Are you sure, Martha? Going out femme in public is not the same experience as costume parties. Once venturing out of the closet, don't you all push the limits of your comfort zone?
Judging only by photos, Martha, you have little to worry about passing in public. The more mature ladies have an advantage over the young ones anyway.

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Well, the costume parties only offer to go out en femme at a certain time, assuming that I do get invites.

An occasional jaunt out would be fun and not have to wait for a costume party.

Naturally, I could also be house bound as well.

But going out en femme would also present a challenge to my presentation, makeup and acting abilities.

And as you say, being a mature lady, I would not get the attention of one very young and unless I make some big mistakes, and would probably blend in.
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As you can check out my post "Starting All Over Again" I will getting a new wardrobe.

Once that is accomplished I think I would like to go out, say to a library or a nice coffee shop.

I am building up the courage.
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You''re so cute Matha... what the heck, you don't have anyone to answer to... put on a dress, your wig, apply a bit of makeup and go shopping now!
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Martha my lady, I echo Robyn and others you look great so just go for it.

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Well, its starting to move off the back burner!

I do realize that I make a passable and attractive woman. A few more points to brush up on.

A coffee shop or library would be good at first.
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I think that the outfit I have on in my avatar would be perfect. Maybe add my red beret and and smaller purse.

What do you girls think?
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Absolutely, Martha! Go for it.

The nice thing about going out en femme as a mature woman is that voice is not quite as much an issue, and that movement is just as restricted for older men as for older women - unless they practice martial arts, yoga, or otherwise keep themselves very fit.
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Re: Wanting To Go Out En Femme

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Thank you Paulette.

I think I can look just as lovely and feminine dressed as a mature lady than trying to dress too young.

There are several ladies who has pictures in the gallery that are in their 70's and they look wonderful.

If I look as good as them I will REALLY be happy!
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