Hello everyone
Moderator: DonnaT
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- Miss Crystal Goddess
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- Location: United Kingdom
Hello everyone
Hi everyone, I’m Crystal. I’m 44 and I’ve crossdressed since I was around 6 or 7 years old.
My gender seems to act like a pendulum most of the time… swinging one way and then the other, not always following a predictable pattern. It might last for a week or change several times in a single day. It’s really weird yet I know the female or male side is still there no matter which one is in the driving seat. Sometimes my gender seems to be right in the middle which feels even weirder.
I’ve considered transition and I don’t personally feel it’s a suitable course of action for me. It might not make sense to many but I feel that my male and female sides need to coexist together. Some kind of balance seems to bring me the most benefit.
The main reason for joining is because I do get very lonely, I have no friends who are like me, nobody who can relate… and for years I’ve just bottled so much of this stuff up with no one to talk to. I’m really tired of being in long isolation so I think it’s time to snap out of that trend.
Hopefully I’ll be welcome here.
Crystal
xxxx
My gender seems to act like a pendulum most of the time… swinging one way and then the other, not always following a predictable pattern. It might last for a week or change several times in a single day. It’s really weird yet I know the female or male side is still there no matter which one is in the driving seat. Sometimes my gender seems to be right in the middle which feels even weirder.
I’ve considered transition and I don’t personally feel it’s a suitable course of action for me. It might not make sense to many but I feel that my male and female sides need to coexist together. Some kind of balance seems to bring me the most benefit.
The main reason for joining is because I do get very lonely, I have no friends who are like me, nobody who can relate… and for years I’ve just bottled so much of this stuff up with no one to talk to. I’m really tired of being in long isolation so I think it’s time to snap out of that trend.
Hopefully I’ll be welcome here.
Crystal
xxxx
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- Miss Ruby Goddess
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Re: Hello everyone
Welcome, Crystal.
Yup, balance.
Yup, balance.
Socrates: The highest wisdom is to know that you know nothing.
Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
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- Miss Crystal Goddess
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- Location: United Kingdom
Re: Hello everyone
Thank you Anthony.
- KimberlyS
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Re: Hello everyone
Welcome to the site Crystal. You sounds similar to myself. I have come to terms with myself being a male with both masculine and feminine traits. Most of the time I present a masculine image to the world but some times I present a feminine image to the world. Around the house I am often presenting a mixed image or guy in a skirt type of image. What ever works for you. Look forward to hearing more from you.
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joe in a skirt
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joe in a skirt
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I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
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- Retired Site Administrator
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Re: Hello everyone
Hi, Crystal, and welcome to the Haven!
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- Native Motor City and Wolverine gal . . . GO BLUE!!
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- Miss Emerald Goddess
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Re: Hello everyone
Hi Crystal.
Welcome to the Haven. There are plenty of us to keep you company so you won't be lonely. Come chat with us.
Welcome to the Haven. There are plenty of us to keep you company so you won't be lonely. Come chat with us.
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- Miss Crystal Goddess
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Re: Hello everyone
@CathyAnn, SilverLady and Kimberly. Thank you very much for the warm welcome.
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- Miss Crystal Goddess
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Re: Hello everyone
Thanks Donna.
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- Miss Ruby Goddess
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Re: Hello everyone
Hi Crystal. Welcome to a friendly and supportive Haven were you will fid lots of friends to share with.
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