Hello, im kinda new here

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Phoebe Zatto
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Hello, im kinda new here

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Hello im Phoebe (kind of a name i refer to my female persona as), im an 18 year old male to female crossdresser. However I have no idea what to do in my situation, I live in a dorm/apartment with 5 other men, but I am not completely out about my crossdressing..to anyone but one friend who lives in Texas. On top of that i have no idea where to start with dressing as the furthest i have dressed is pantyhose and a bra from my mom, at one point i put on lipstick and loved it, but besides that completely and utterly new when it comes to all of this. ON TOP of all that in the metro phoenix area there seems to be only one store that caters to crossdressers. So when it comes to my stack of issues im clueless to all of this, so yeah any and all advice is appreciated!
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Hi Phoebe, Welcome -wel- to the Haven. You will find support here as well as make new friends. Ask all your questions because you will get the advice you seek.
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Welcome to the forum and that is so cool that you have come here when you are 18 and are discovering who you are, I think that is great and takes lots of courage. Great job. It took me almost 40 years t realize and come to the conclusion that I am transgender so that is awesome abut you ralizing it early on.
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Hi, Phoebe, and welcome to the Haven! ..o)..


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Hi Phoebe and welcome to this friendly and supportive Haven.
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Welcome, Phoebe.
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Welcome, Phoebe!
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Welcome Phoebe , I am also new to this site and the info and advice you will find here will help you getting started and going forward.
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Hi Phoebe,

Glad you have joined our merry band. We love and support each other.

You seem to be drinking from a fire hose. Take is slow and easy. The mantra is baby steps.

My advise is talk about each of your questions in a separate post. First putting it down in a post is helpful. Second somebody here has probably dealt with something similar and will chime in (and of course there will be a lot of other voices as well :) ).

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Hi Phoebe, -wel- aboard.

I suggest avoiding dressing around the other guys. Living in a dorm, I assume a college dorm, will only be a short term, compared with the rest of your life.

As for obtaining things you need for dressing, any store will do for most things.
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Hi, Phoebe, -wel-
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