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Candace(SO) · Post by **Candace(SO)** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 12:52 pm

Hi I joined yesterday, I live in california and am a partner of a crossdresser

Post by **DonnaT** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 1:47 pm

Hi Candace,

to the forum.

Suzie Green · Post by **Suzie Green** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 2:07 pm

Welcome Candace...always nice to have more from "the other side" here!!

Lisa(SO) · Post by **Lisa(SO)** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 7:18 pm

Welcome Candace!! You may want to have one of the admns add SO to the end of your name so we know who is who. It is always great to have more SO support.

Anita · Post by **Anita** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 8:24 pm

Hello Candace--
Glad you signed up--I think it can do something for you, the partner of a crossdresser, to be on here. There's lots of information, and a separate section for SOs to post among themselves. Welcome!

SilverLady(SO) · Post by **SilverLady(SO)** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 8:49 pm

Hi, Candace, and welcome to the forum! I'll take care of getting you properly designated as an SO, and I'm sending you an email tonight.

We look forward to your participation - and if your CD is not a member here, please ask him/her to join, also!!

- SL

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 11:13 pm

Welcome Candace, You Californian ladies are always welcome! They say most all trends start on the West Coast!
Virginia

Kyra · Post by **Kyra** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 11:40 pm

Hi Candace,

Hugs,
Kyra

Candace(SO) · Post by **Candace(SO)** » Thu Feb 15, 2007 10:32 pm

Thank you all, your so very kind. I don't know why I didn't join much earlier. My CD could benefit from discussions. I don't believe he has every sought out any sort of guidance. He does go to Carlas in San Jose.
I read all your responses and I appreciate them very much.

Yes, he does sleep in a nighty, one that I bought for him.

I think what through him though, was a coworker hugged him and kissed his ear and he became aroused. Along with the gay dreams where he also becomes aroused. We haven't been intimate in awhile. We were looking for housing for us last week. This week was the revelation he may be gay. He's confused and in a crisis. Hurts me to see him that way.
Huggs me alot. He has never been dressed outside of his home. We had planned to go to a crossdressers halloween party and he panicked, we didn't go. I sense this shame he has. He was also very close to his father
they did alot of things together. I also sense greiving.

How does a person find out if they are gay.

GalicianGirl(SO) · Post by **GalicianGirl(SO)** » Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:37 pm

A Great Big Welcome to you Candace(SO)!!!

Sharon(SO)

Carla L · Post by **Carla L** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 7:47 am

Hello Candice,

Welcome to the forum. I too wondered if I was gay, and even tried it once. It did not come near my expectations at all, the fantacy was so much more than the reality of it. I think, after about 2 minutes into it I wanted to turn an d run away.

I still fantisize but realize that is all it is. I love women (my wife), so much so I dress as one as often as I can!

Good luck to you and I hope the forum helps.

Stormy(SO) · Post by **Stormy(SO)** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 6:23 pm

Welcome Candace! Missy and I have talked from time to time about transgender and gay - the good news is s/he loves women and enjoys the womaness of herself while being himself.

Stormy

Tink (GG) · Post by **Tink (GG)** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 7:59 pm

Welcome to you, Candace!

HUgs~ tink

JoAnnDallas · Post by **JoAnnDallas** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 2:21 pm

Welcome to the forum.