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Hi ladies ive finaly got the courage to go out in the world as jayne. My wife is behind me all the way to the point of booking a weekend away for the two of us, my only problem is I dont have any idea how jayne should look, if its left to my wife I will look like a hooker so im looking for some help and ideas. Im mid thirtys a little over weight and im a size 16. Yours gratefully jayne

Welcome, Jayne. First things first, congratulations on having such a supportive wife. I guess "tone it down" would be the obvious first step in not looking like a hooker. I.E. Less makeup, more restrained clothes. I've never been out dressed up, but one of the things I do is sit in coffee shops and watch women go past - studying how much makeup they wear and what sort of clothes.

I'm kind of surprised you don't have some iea of how you want to look from looking in the mirror and the sort of clothes you enjoy wearing - or enjoy seeing GGs wearing - like are there any GGs you think "I would like to be like that" (I mean achievable - like not Marilyn Monroe)?

Hi, Jayne, and welcome to the Forum!


- SL

Hi Jayne, welcome to the forum.

Anthony has given you good advice. What clothes do you have already? The "look like a hooker" remark may suggest that the clothes you have already, lean in that direction. (Pardon me if I'm wrong!) If this is right, then you need to go shopping! (I think that's our solution to all ills LOL.)

Would love to hear what you eventually decide.

Welcome Jayne,
watching what women are wearing in locations you will be frequenting seems the best advice.

Welcome Jayne.

So what is the better half going to be wearing? Is she planning on dressing as a hooker? For your first time out, you could simply wear a similar outfit as the better half. If she's going to wear pants, then so can you. If she wears a skirt, you can too. If she's going to wear a mini with her tushy hanging out..... you can wear pants....

I concur with the shopping idea too. If you have only had one look, now will be a chance to see how other looks will work for you.

Hi Jayne, to the forum.

Wear what women your age normally wear, such as casual wear for a casual outing, or a little more dressy when called for. Keep the makeup to a minimum, but enough to hide any 5 o'clock shadow. Maybe think about what you liked that your Nan wore?

Hi, Jayne, and to our home on the internet.

Thanks for the helpful advice in answer to Anne my wardrobe mainly consists of short mini skirts three pairs of high heel shoes and three pairs of boots and lots of underwear, o know I feel comfortable being a crossdresser and I now feel the time is right tp go further and start getting the rest of it and to give jayne am identity. Ive asked my wife for some ideas and help but she unfortunately dose not realy know and so she said why not try here. Yours jayne xd

Hi Jayne .

Hi Jayne. I suggest you ask your wife if she would be comfortable going out in any of your miniskirts. If not, then look at what she normally wears, and go shopping for something similar.

Jayne, I guess the first question is where do the two of you plan to get out and about with you enfemme? i.e. the mall, out to eat, club, fetish club? Then based on that I would look at how other GG's dress where your will be going and try to get similar wear. But over all it comes down to what you want to wear and the look you want others to see. Also if you are trying to blend or trying to stick out is another factor.

Hi Jayne, This is a great place to meet folks and get ideas. In the end it is up to you.
Be thankful your SO is aggreeable.

Ronnie

Ladies I would love to say a big thankyou to you all, ive now decided on jayne and as of Friday she will be me. Ive taken your excellent advice on how I will look and my wife and I are going shopping tommorow to give jayne a life xd. So once again a big thanks to you all

Jayne, I hope to hear more about how the outing went.