Crossdressers-Haven.com

Just wanted to say hello to everyone, and introduce myself. I have been secretly into crossdressing for as long as I can remember. I'm married and haven't told her about it, I can't believe that she doesn't suspect something after 25 years. I believe she knows a little bit more than she says. I just wanna get all dressed up and go out somewhere.

hi scottie i am a new member as of today i came out to my wife this week cant beleive how supportive she is and understanding she lets me dress up as long as the kids dont know i say this to encourage you it is very difficult hiding suppressing who you are i will pray for you

Thanks Rebekah...I hope that can happen soon. For now, I just need to get it out there to talk about.

Hi Scottie,
to the forum, It's lovely to meet you!

Nothing wrong with taking your time, one step at a time and seeing how it all turns out...

Welcome, Scottie.

Scottie ,

So nice to meet you, you will find we are a really great bunch of girls and SO

Welcome Scottie

Hi, Scottie, and welcome to the forum!


- SL

Thanks all for the welcomes. I can't wait to talk about my desires and clothing etc...

Hi Scottie, to the forum.

Welcome to the forum, Scottie! Maybe your wife really does NOT know, you could be a better spy than you know.

Scottie great to meet you x

Hi Scottie

Hi everyone. Maybe she doesn't know. I'm just hoping so it will be easier to come clean. Either way, the only real way to go much further and enjoy myself is to include her.

You sound kind of intoxicated at the idea of telling your wife. But the things you see in that state are not necessarily true. It's like any form of intoxication, CD intoxication (aka "the pink fog"), and you need to be careful about what you do next.

What Karin said (above) seems like a good way to go.