Hi, just joined

[Nicole Roxy]

So glad to have found the forum. It is wonderful to see that I am not alone. I recently "outed" for the 2nd time to my wife, having dropped the bombshell 11 yrs ago and then promptly brushed it under the carpet! A couple of weeks ago, I just had to discuss the elephant in the room. I think, hope, pray that she is beginning to understand. I dont expect her to ever have to be a part of Nicole, but just crave the liberty and freedom to explore my girly self. Nicole

[Anthony Simon]

Welcome, Nicole (and the elephant that was hiding under your carpet).

[Joanne T.]

Hello Nicole
to the forum and I hope you have somewhere large enough to store that outed elephant
You are among friends here so make the most of it
Hugs and things
Joanne
xxxx

[SilverLady(SO)]

Hi, Nicole, and welcome to the forum!


- SL

[Carol Ann]

Hi Nicole,

So happy to meet you , come sit down kick off them heels and enjoy a nice cup of coffee.

Drop by chat sometime and enjoy your other sisters as we are a fun group.

[Zephyr Lily]

So nice to meet you Nicole..







zephyr

[DonnaT]

Hi Nicole, to the forum.

[Requal Jo]

Welcome Nicole to friendly and informative forum.

[Diane Hoffrau]

Welcome Nichole
I am another newbie on this forum

All we can say is to keep the lines of communication open and flowing
Remember while it may seem like the most important thing in your life when you feel the need
her timing and tollerance level may not be in sync with your timing so
slow and steady wins the race

Keep working on the new normal

Be mighty considerate
Diane

[MichelleO]

Welcome Nichole.
I also am a new member, about 5 days now, and I have had lot of satisfaction from what I have seen as I am still in the closet as they say, I have not broached the subject with my wife, of 52 years and I know it will be hard for her to understand but hopefully maybe some day she will be accepting.
Love
Michelle

[Diane Hoffrau]

Nichole
With 52 years of marriage you are no spring chicken
(nor am I with 41 in the books)

Let me plant this seed
If not now when?
When do you get to experience the real you that yo have had to supress for all those years

It does take courage
and there will be resistance
but if you can really convey your need
Then perhaps the two of you may have a chance at an experience of a life time

Be mighty corrageous

Diane

[Lisa T.]

Hi Nichole.
Welcome to the forum.
You are with freinds here, and the best of freinds are those those that truly
understand-enjoy your time here.x

[Carol Esme]

Oh Nicole, another two times outer. We should start a club. I came out to my wife in the late 1970s. Initially she thought it was fun but then it got serious and her attitude sent me back into the closet for 30yrs. Now I'm out again and determined never to take a backward step. Oh sorry Welcome to the Forum.

[Nicole Roxy]

Hi Carol
Me too, its forward from here. I feel so much better now...content and happy. Just a bit frustrated at times that I can't CD more often. But my wife knows more or less when I do CD and I think she is making peace with it.
Hugs, Nicole

[Carly]

Welcome Nicole