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Hi everyone!! I am Olivia and I have been trying on either my mother's or my wife's things always when alone!! For the last 40 years had a mustache and would never think of going forward!! In August shaved and started to think about my own clothes, wig, make-up, and going out!! Now have a dress, two pairs of pants, two blouses, two pair or shoes, breast forms, and working on make-up!! Taking baby steps now and I'll see how it goes!! Spouse seemed supportive at first (helped pick out dress and blouses), but not so much lately!! We'll see!! Talk soon!!

Welcome, Olivia. It may be that your enthusiasm for CDing has got your wife worried.

Hi Olivia, to the forum.

Likely your wife was enthused with the newness of things. A number of wives find they really aren't into it.

If you get to dress, without your wife's participation, then things aren't too bad, from a CDing point of view. Don't push your wife into doing anything she's not or no longer comfortable with.

Hi Olivia.

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Hi, Olivia and welcome to the Forum! You will find a great group here.

Rikki

Welcome Olivia. Nothing wrong with taking baby steps. My wife accepted my CDing however remained apprehensive when Requal appeared. By taking things slowly and introducing new items at the appropriated time, her apprehension is slowly diminishing. You will find wonderful support and friendship at this address.

OliviaM, we welcome you to the forum.

Hi, Olivia, and welcome to the forum!


- SL

Hi, Olivia,

Hi Olivia, to the forum. this is the perfect place for you to learn and become your fem-self. Come join in the chatroom and don't be shy.

Hi Olivia
to the forum, your story is so typical I'm sure there will be plenty of advice coming your way. Baby steps are the answer to start and don't try to involve the wife too much at first, but don't exclude her either. Try to strike a balance between your needs and the newness of the situation for her.
Best of luck
Hugs
Joanne xxxx

Hello Olivia, Glad you have joined us. Lots of fun here, a place to learn, to cry, and always know we are here for each other.

Kelly.

Thanks to everyone for the welcome!! Joanne, your advice was well taken and I will remember it!! I am hiding some things but can't find the right time or place to get things out! I will though!! Thanks again!!

Olivia Hi again,
Do things at your own pace to suit yourself. When you need advice there is always someone here.
Big hugs
Joanne xxx

Welcome Olivia