Hello, I'm new to pretty much everything here....!

[Astrid]

Hi all! My name is Astrid, though no one knows me as that. I am 27 years old and I first started wearing lady's clothing a couple of months ago when, whilst doing the washing, I noticed how soft my fiancee's underwear was. I tried them on and was astounded - what have I been missing all these years? From there, it kind of snowballed. I discovered something about myself that I never knew existed. I now love to dress up when I am alone, lingerie, stockings, heels, dresses, the works.

So hello! That's me, and how I got here... I'm a rock 'n roll fanatic, a comics/sci-fi nerd and love to laugh!!

Finally, something that has helped me a great deal in life... I have the words 'Don't Panic' tattooed to my chest. Simple really!

[SilverLady(SO)]

Hi, Astrid, and welcome to the Haven!

As for wearing your fiancee's clothing that is a definite no-no, especially if it's without her permission. I suggest you start buying your own clothes.


Let your fiancee know about Astrid as soon as possible, she has a right to know. The sooner you tell her the easier your life is going to be, especially on the trust aspect of the relationship. The longer you keep Astrid hidden from her the more she's going to wonder what else you have 'lied' to her about.

Good luck!


- SL

[Anthony Simon]

Welcome, Astrid.

[DonnaT]

Hi Astrid, aboard.

I advise you not to wear your fiance's lingerie, a good way to get caught.

Also, you may want to consider discussing this newly found desire with her, to keep the trust in the relationship.

[Martina Hall]

Welcome, Astrid!

[Joanne T.]

Astrid,
Enjoy your new lifestyle, but consider coming out to your fiancée if you are using her things.
Hugs
Joanne xxxx

[April Rose]

Welcome, Astrid. I'm a 64 year old guitar newbie, But I've been a CD all my life. Listen to the folks who've been to the show; Don't wear her clothes without her permission, it will creep her out. If you think you want to continue with this, you need to tell her before the wedding.

Maybe you can suggest it as a form of play; "Hey, you know what would be fun, let's swap......."

[Stephanie H]

Astrid:
All the instructions are on the mark. To be happy with yourself, please follow them.

[Kelly]

Hello Astrid,

Glad you are here. I predict a fashion challenge for you. How to match your towel with you purse and shoes

Kelly.

[Domonique]

Welcome Astrid.

[Requal Jo]

Hi Astrid. Welcome to this friendly and supportive Haven.

I suggest you take the advice of the more experienced persons who reside in this Haven: that is not to wear your finance clothing and to tell her of your desires as soon as possible.

Honesty in our position is the best medicine.

[Bridget]

Welcome Astrid, This is a great place to learn from the ladies who have walked in your heels before.

[Carly]

Welcome Astrid