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Genevieve
- Miss Silver Goddess
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Hello Everyone
I have been reading the posts on the forum for at a while.
i am a lingerie and high heels lover. I love to underdress.
I always have purchased my clothing in drab. I know my sizes so rarely had to take something back. (I grew up in the rag trade, my father a tailor and mother a seamstress.) Shoes were always the problem. I never had the courage to approach a sales person. I hid in the aisles at Payless, trying on shoes when no one was looking.
What prompted me to join and want to become active was a recent experience I had.
I was in a western city (don't know if I should identify the city) on business. I found a wig store that also specialized in makeovers. I screwed up my courage and went there. I was very nervous and scared. I was warmly welcomed and asked how I could be helped. I stuttered that I was interested in buying stilettos. They showed me to the shoe display room. It was like entering Aladin's Cave, full of treasure. They made feel at ease, fitted me properly and sold me a pair of 5 inch stilettos that are the most comfortable shoes I ever owned. I even ordered a pair that I'll pick up on my next trip. There were several girls shopping as well who complimented me on my selections. I chatted with them and realized I had found kindred spirits.
That experience showed me it was time to come to grips with what I've always known about who I am. I love women's clothes and shoes and love wearing them. I hoping to find kindred sisters who share and understand this and who can help me on my journey.
i am a lingerie and high heels lover. I love to underdress.
I always have purchased my clothing in drab. I know my sizes so rarely had to take something back. (I grew up in the rag trade, my father a tailor and mother a seamstress.) Shoes were always the problem. I never had the courage to approach a sales person. I hid in the aisles at Payless, trying on shoes when no one was looking.
What prompted me to join and want to become active was a recent experience I had.
I was in a western city (don't know if I should identify the city) on business. I found a wig store that also specialized in makeovers. I screwed up my courage and went there. I was very nervous and scared. I was warmly welcomed and asked how I could be helped. I stuttered that I was interested in buying stilettos. They showed me to the shoe display room. It was like entering Aladin's Cave, full of treasure. They made feel at ease, fitted me properly and sold me a pair of 5 inch stilettos that are the most comfortable shoes I ever owned. I even ordered a pair that I'll pick up on my next trip. There were several girls shopping as well who complimented me on my selections. I chatted with them and realized I had found kindred spirits.
That experience showed me it was time to come to grips with what I've always known about who I am. I love women's clothes and shoes and love wearing them. I hoping to find kindred sisters who share and understand this and who can help me on my journey.
In a world where you can be anything, be unapologetically fabulous in your high heels.
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Anthony Simon
- Miss Ruby Goddess
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- Location: London, UK
Re: Hello Everyone
Welcome, Genevieve.
Socrates: The highest wisdom is to know that you know nothing.
Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
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SilverLady(SO)
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Hi, Genevieve, and welcome to the Haven!
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- KimberlyS
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Genevieve welcome to the forum. You have now done the hard part, you have accepted who you are and what you like to do. And you already have the shopping in drab part down. You go girl.
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I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
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OliviaM
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- Location: Rockaway Park, NY
Re: Hello Everyone
Hi Genevieve and
to the Haven. I believe you are in the right place to get the support and advice you seek to continue on your journey. As Kimberly said you have taken the important first steps and it will get easier with the ladies here helping. looking forward to your posts and feedback.
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PaulaGarnet GG
- Miss Silver Goddess
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- Joined: Fri May 09, 2008 10:22 am
- Location: Southern California
Re: Hello Everyone
Hi Genevieve.
Welcome to the Haven. You won't find a nicer group of people. If you enjoy chatting, some into the chat room, there is usually someone there to talk with. Hope to see you there soon.
Paula
Welcome to the Haven. You won't find a nicer group of people. If you enjoy chatting, some into the chat room, there is usually someone there to talk with. Hope to see you there soon.
Paula
I'm a GG and love to chat with anyone, except people that hate.
- Catherine
- Miss Crystal Goddess
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- Location: Québec , Canada
Re: Hello Everyone
Hi Genevieve welcome with us
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Martina Hall
- Miss Golden Goddess
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- Location: Small-town middle U.S.
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Welcome, Genevieve! Yes, cross-dressing is the most fun I've ever had with clothes on.
I AM my own hot girlfriend.
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Mikaela
- Miss Emerald Goddess
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Welcome welcome!! So glad you've gotten over your fears. Shopping is a weekly occurance now that I have grown accustomed to it. You and I have similar desires for femme clothing. We should talk more!
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Requal Jo
- Miss Ruby Goddess
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- Location: East Coast Australia
Re: Hello Everyone
Hi Genevieve and welcome to his happy, friendly and supportive Haven. You will find lots of wonder people here to share your dressing and shopping experiences with.
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- Martha G
- Miss Golden Goddess
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