Hi just joined up

[RylieM]

Hi im a casual crossdresser i've been doing it since i was 14 on and off about to get back into it when around the house im 34 now. I joined because back when I started there wasn't anything like this the only one that knew was a school counselor she actually gave me tips/advice. Ill occasionally be asking for tips and possible product advice for things like breast forms and glues for em otherwise i tend to read more than write no matter what site i'm on. To date that counselor is the only person to ever know my interest and at least for now its staying that way i saw how my family reacted to my little sisters husband divorcing her and transitioning not something I wanna deal with.

[Anthony Simon]

Welcome, Rylie.

It can't help to bottle up your feelings about your family's rejection of your sister's ex-husband.

[SilverLady(SO)]

Hi, Rylie, and welcome to the Haven!


- SL

[RylieM]

Welcome, Rylie.

It can't help to bottle up your feelings about your family's rejection of your sister's ex-husband.

Yea it goes a bit further than that and its just my father my mother isnt bothered by those who crossdress or those who go further but my dad hes different. Hes accused me of being gay just because of mastubating he cought me when i was younger also ive worked closely with him at a race track nearby there was transgenders that either knew a racer or went to be a spectator he was very openly critical about there choices and at times had stuff to say about em I didn't like even when they were in earshot. My mom taught me to be open and accept others feelings regardless and never to judge anyone before you met them.

I like to think I take after he the most my only beef with my sisters ex is she chose to hide everything and marry my sister i'm very traditional when it comes to marriage in once you marry someone short of death or another extreme circumstance marriage is final.

[DonnaT]

Hi Rylie, to the forum.

Your opinion is yours, but note that your feelings regarding marriage is similar to many who hate the idea of men (or women) crossdressing or transitioning.

[Martina Hall]

RylieM, we welcome you!

[RylieM]

Hi Rylie, to the forum.

Your opinion is yours, but note that your feelings regarding marriage is similar to many who hate the idea of men (or women) crossdressing or transitioning.

I understand that but that's as far as my opinion on the subject goes what someone does to his/her own body or how they wish to portray themselves is up to them I will never judge them based off of that. When my father made those comments the most I did is shug and stay quiet I don't like confrontations with him or anyone for that matter especially when we work together witch is common its also the only time we get along. I just feel if your gonna marry someone make sure its someone you can be with the rest of your life and make sure your open with your significant other completely before hand. Granted in her case the world was a bit different folks were not open to accepting the choices she made when she was growing up altho it really hasn't changed much since then its only been 10 ish years since she came out started to transition .

[Requal Jo]

Hi Rylie and welcome to this happy and supportive Haven. You will certainly find lots of wonderful persons at this address who will be pleased to share their tips and tricks of our dressing with you.

[Martha G]

Hi Rylie!

Welcome to the forum.

[Rikki]

Rylie,

Welcome to the Haven! Great group of people here. I'm sure you'll enjoy and be made to fell welcome.

Rikki