Confused!

Wendae · Post by **Wendae** » Thu Jul 15, 2010 12:42 pm

As many of you know my wife is not a fan of CDing. I am not allowed to dress at home or discuss it. Panties are ok as is clearnail polish and light pink on fingers and toes. Reasonable earings .Mine are triple pierced. It was her idea to get the first set. Bracelets, rings, toe rings and ankle bracelets ok. The day after Father's day I shaved my arms. Cut 'em up pretty good. After a week of no comment I did legs, thighs and chest. Razor burn and cuts plainly visible as all I wear is shorts around the house. She needed a new razor and bought a nice one. "Try it out she said." Worked great. Next day after I asked for help with my eyebrows she gave me a trimmer. I said with all the razor burn and 5 o'clock shadow can I use your razor. She said, "Ok." Next day I bought my own. Yesterday she gave me my early birthday/Father's day gift. 2 cuff bracelets. One wide, plain gold tone and the other 2 tone gold and silver with shamrocks and intertwined Celtic Trinity Knots. I told her I was having troublesleeping and was really stressed. "She said am I going to like what's on you mind?" And I said no. End of conversation.

Post by **DonnaT** » Thu Jul 15, 2010 3:33 pm

Seems she figured with the way boundaries were being pushed, your next step was to introduce wearing nighties to bed.

A step too far.

I waited until my wife bought me a nightie, even though I had one already, before gradually introducing it to normal bedroom wear.

Wendae · Post by **Wendae** » Thu Jul 15, 2010 6:25 pm

Maybe! Wish she would do something. I don't want the fights like in the past. I don't care for nighties. I sleep in panties and some times woman's nylon jammy bottoms.

Kittie · Post by **Kittie** » Fri Jul 16, 2010 1:03 am

DonnaT wrote:Seems she figured with the way boundaries were being pushed, your next step was to introduce wearing nighties to bed.

A step too far.

I waited until my wife bought me a nightie, even though I had one already, before gradually introducing it to normal bedroom wear.

A similar situation happened to me. I only wear nighties now (Excpt when we have visitors)

Karren Hutton · Post by **Karren Hutton** » Fri Jul 16, 2010 7:50 am

Don't push too hard... Her recoil could snap back and take your head off!

Davita · Post by **Davita** » Fri Jul 16, 2010 10:34 am

I started pushing boundaries from day one. Some were blatant and some were more subtle. It took me 25 years to go out en fem. What I have found is that many of the boundaries I have pushed have never been reduced once breached. This is not to say this approach is right for ever couple, i guess I'm trying to say you have time and habit to slowly but surely make progress.