I am somewhat submissive...NOT BDSM! GRRR ARTICLE FOUND
Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2019 10:06 am
https://pairedlife.com/dating/Submissive-Men" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false; wow! I finally found an article on how I am...you look it up and 99% of what comes up is BDSM or dominatrixs...that's not it at all! No. I have no desire to be abused or dominated by someone in leather using restraining devices! Grrr! I want to be respected and treated in a loving and considerate way the way any husband normaly treats a wife except in this case...I am part of a small percentage of men who happen to be submissive in that they look to the woman maybe not all of the time...we want equality but I do not mind her being in the lead making decisions and listening to and caring for her but I am a mix...and yes I do want this but in balance...the mutual part is really true...sharing experiences...wanting help and love, wanting equality, sharing decisions taking advice...yeah...I'm not fully but I am different like this. I am shy in part. I do tend to hold back...Oh well. Thing is we...men like myself are indeed out there and there are indeed women who find this to be a very nice thing. The end of this article states "From a physical perspective, sensitive men seem to be more open to having fun mutually. That is the word really: mutual. With submissive men, everything is more mutual whether it's responsibility, earning, or making decisions. That is of course, a great basis for a long-term relationship."
Of course feeling feminine and crossdressing does not have to go along with any of this...but then again I have been this way for so long that, well I really do feel feminine and I really do like wearing dresses sometimes...so it does all tend to fit together rather well, and even if and I believe cross dresser or not it's just how I tend to be I see my partner as equal, things are mutual and if she leads and sometimes I do it's fine.
Yes if she were wearing pants literally and I happen to be in feminine clothing...and being more enjoying her lead as I do household things or bills or whatever There is absolutely nothing wrong with women being in the lead in the home and it is not kinky.
Of course feeling feminine and crossdressing does not have to go along with any of this...but then again I have been this way for so long that, well I really do feel feminine and I really do like wearing dresses sometimes...so it does all tend to fit together rather well, and even if and I believe cross dresser or not it's just how I tend to be I see my partner as equal, things are mutual and if she leads and sometimes I do it's fine.
Yes if she were wearing pants literally and I happen to be in feminine clothing...and being more enjoying her lead as I do household things or bills or whatever There is absolutely nothing wrong with women being in the lead in the home and it is not kinky.