all the time
Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2020 9:38 am
In the last several years I've gradually worn male clothes less frequently, until now I never wear them. For a good bit of that time, I'd often choose outfits that were not too obviously women's, and be not especially notable.
But now I wear exactly what I like, mostly dresses. And I don't necessarily put a lot of effort into trying to pass, so often people use male pronouns for me even when wearing a dress. I don't care too much about that, though I do wish we had more commonly known gender non-specific pronouns. Anyway, I'm in the mode now of just wearing what I like, trying to look good in it, and be happy about my appearance without caring whether I'm interpreted as a man or a woman.
I don't consider myself to be transgendered, but I also don't tie my identity very strongly to gender at all. I suppose there's a word for that, but I don't worry about labels.
So I'm curious whether there's others here who just wear what they like, without caring about trying to fit into either of the expected gender catagories.
But now I wear exactly what I like, mostly dresses. And I don't necessarily put a lot of effort into trying to pass, so often people use male pronouns for me even when wearing a dress. I don't care too much about that, though I do wish we had more commonly known gender non-specific pronouns. Anyway, I'm in the mode now of just wearing what I like, trying to look good in it, and be happy about my appearance without caring whether I'm interpreted as a man or a woman.
I don't consider myself to be transgendered, but I also don't tie my identity very strongly to gender at all. I suppose there's a word for that, but I don't worry about labels.
So I'm curious whether there's others here who just wear what they like, without caring about trying to fit into either of the expected gender catagories.
I have done that a few times away from home and had no problems doing it. IMHO a lot of others acceptance of you starts with your personal acceptance of yourself. If you are comfortable with yourself doing it others pick up on your comfort energy and makes them more comfortable with you.