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I think it started when I was young. I wanted to be one of three things.. a girly girl.... a kunoichi{a.k.a a femsle ninja} or a tomboy. the thing is I may not do it now but in the future I defiantly want to switch back and fourth from dressing as a girly girl and dressing as a tomboy. one problem I am already a guy. at least physically. I was looking for a complete break down on what I need to do.. will have to wait till after my dad passes though. doctors said he has one to two years to live and that was this year. I am waiting not to strain our relationship. I am 3 years old btw.

"*girly tomboy"

Hi Jennifer. 3 years old?

32.. sorry typo...

You could wear the clothes and do it in private and not strain the relationship.

I can't though.. ty for trying.. I live in the same house with him due to mental illness. he owns the house and we are really close to each other room wise. though from what my mom says she kind of fine eith it provided I don't take it to far.

When he dies, you'll likely be upset. Not the greatest state to be making decisions. Do it when you're on reasonably stable mental ground.

of course... I agree. no one should be under that much mental strain while making decisions. I still like to think it will happen.

I'm not sure it couldn't happen now if you're cautious.

There are different forms of CDing. For example, underdressing. That's when you wear women's underclothes under your guy clothes. People do it when they want to CD and not have it show. I've done it a few times (including seeing my dad once and going to his funeral).

I'm not risking it.

Jenifer the family dilemma is always in interesting one. Wish you the best of luck with your Dad.

kimberlys

ty. I will.

any advice though on how to pull this off.. the look of a tomboy.

I often pull off kind of a tomboy look. For my casual presenting a guy day I wear a lot of femme jeans unisex looking tee and femme unisex looking boots or sneakers. The only think I am missing for a tomboy look is more of a chest. It is wild how much femme attire there is that is very unisex looking depending on what else you wear it with.

I will bet you have some tomboy look in your mind that you are trying to emulate. That maybe should be a start for you.

kimberlys cd
joe in a skirt

If no one minds I'll post some pics for insperAtion... They are anime pics though.