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SO GGF wants me to go to the local CURVES exercise studio/gym she goes to twice a week with her and wear a sexy female string or thong swimsuit and SWIM 25 laps with her and the other five women in the workout class. Then go to training center for a 30 minutes session on a treadmill wearing the same.
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Any suggested sources.

Am very slender and 6'1" small "p" 38DD GLUED ON boobs.
Just got a SHORT "page boy" hair style same time SO GGF had one done where I work yesterday.
Later this week SO GGF says we're going to a "Waxing Spa" for a waxing treatment for a BIKINI TREATMENT.???? What's up?

Then a Facial electrolysis treatment.? Then a Tan booth. Before going to gym once SO GGF AND I get TWIN swimsuits. As I am having to become her twin for 3 months

What do you want, is the question.

Curves is GG only, will you be able to get in?

Bikinis don't cover much, nor hold in much. Being able to tuck really well will be essential. Waxing will bee a good idea.

Electrolysis isn't a one time deal and can't be done in one day.

Tammie,

I've read most of your posts so far. This one and the cheerleader one suggests that your GF enjoys forced feminization on you. Posting false anguish for a dilemma you seem to enjoy takes away from the true purpose of a forum. You want to dress and act as woman, fine. Just don't pretend that someone else made you do it.

Calls of nature done respectfully is OK with me, more than once been in the WC with a Cd next door. But violate a ladies workout area wearing a bikini? Hope the pool water is really cold or you might get a Nike in the Nuticles.

If all is true with all your posts, it does seem that your GF is a dominant master, and you, her sissy boy. What I ask is honesty. State the facts and not ask for advice that you don't want. You're bragging here. I come here to learn and accept my husband's cross dressing, not read your sexual fantasies.

Eileen

Thank you, Eileen, because I was thinking similar thoughts as you and have held back on commenting because I was too furious to think straight. The following is a very calm version of my initial reaction to reading Tammie's post.


I am a regular/charter member at one of the local Gold's Gyms and I have been a member of other exercise/sports venues. If I ever happen to see a MTF CD/TG in the women's area, or dressed in a swimsuit as Tammie suggests, I will immediately notify the management to have that person escorted out of the area if not out of the gym entirely.

There is a proper place for CDing, and a women's-only gym - - or the women's area of a co-ed gym, the pool/sauna/hot tub, and/or the locker room area - - is NOT it. For Tammie to do so implies a narcissistic personality with absolutely no sense of decorum, of right-or-wrong, and your GF is just as guilty.

I have absolutely no problem being with CDs or TGs . . . but the women's area of a gym, or in Tammie's case a women's-only gym (Curves), is violating a sacrosanct area that is restricted to women only, and 'wannabes' have absolutely no right to be there.


Now if Tammie, or anyone else, has had MTF SRS (or is well along in that process, ie had an orchidectomy) then that is a different story.


Sorry, Tammie, but the proposed actions by you and your GF exceed the bounds of decency, and you do not have the right to subject others to your role playing, for that is all it is, role play.


- SL

Hi,

This is something iv talked about a good number of times concerning men wishing to be like women or act like so they can enter into our space, yes it maybe a fantisy or a game to many yet what is missed out is can we not go any where by our own or just be with our own women with out intruders.

Reguardless of the reason, to do so. i could wear a two peace swimsuit like any other woman and thats all youd see is another woman,

As it happens i took our `10 year grandaughter to Oamaru for a swim in our large complex 3 pools now its a mixed site with seperate changeing rooms while i was in there with Dejarn a woman had said something to one of the women overseer's so she said it maybe a good idear if i wonted to change in another room because this other woman said i was a male in the females room. she was taken aback when i told her i was a female born . her women boss's allready knew i was , when i approched them later, they said it was a misunderstanding by. the first woman , she thought i was a male in the womens changing room. not so
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So youll see how hard it is for those of us who are female / women yet because of how we look its not so easy and im a female, this is not the first or will it be the last time i get sighted .even age did not come into it and im 66 .

Please think about what you intentend to do before you act on that, your girl friend should know better as well.

...noeleena...

I'm with SL on this issue. this type of post is not what I am here for.

This can be a difficult call.

Yes, being a naughty child, challenging the rules, seeking attention by behaving badly -- that's not acceptable and should be disciplined, discouraged, and guided toward acceptable behavior. But gently and with respect, even if you personally find the behavior disgusting.

Sometimes the transgressor has no clue and doesn't know any better. Sometimes that's the only way they have of expressing their deepest selves or their sexuality. Sometimes like many of us here (myself included) they are far enough on the autism spectrum to simply not know the rules until they're told what they are. Some have so thoroughly identified their transgressive behavior with enjoyment that it is compulsive. In all cases they, we, need guidance, and not punishment or shaming which would only reinforce that behavior.

Living here as we do, on the edge of the socially acceptable world, requires a deft and gentle hand. So do not too quickly rush to judgement. We are here to help each other.

~ Paulette, and his wonderful and very thoughtful wife

You may be correct, Paulette. But a careful reading of ALL of Tammie's posts do not suggest a hint of Autism or Asperger's Syndrome. It's standard Dominatrix and submissive, the submissive feigning forced feminization. Begging for help or advice, which will not be heeded, is a way to brag about the scenarios. I.E., it's more exciting to bring in innocents (us) to care about the submissive/victim (her). Or, it's all BS story telling.

I will not be a part of Tammie's sexual fantasies. It's not serious forum conversation.

Eileen

I've gone to the beach in a two piece womans swimsuit several times

I am a big person and but I looked just like lots of big women on the beach

You can do it if you want to

Diane

As I said, a difficult call.

But in this instance I'll go with your call, Eileen. I don't like it, not because it's sexual or kinky, but because it's dishonest and manipulative.

Homie don't play dat.