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The Good the Bad, and the Ugly

Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 7:28 am
by Paula G
I just have to tell someone about my day yesterday, The Good the Bad, and glad to say no real Ugly.

I was traveling around Surrey yesterday to see a couple of people to do with my consultancy business, knowing I would have some time to myself I did take a change of clothes with me :) Well I got all my visits finnished early, in fact before lunch, so got changed, put on the slap, and went to Lunch in Oxted (Surrey) This was my first opportunity to wear my new wig out, I felt much more comfortable with this one and I think that showed. I had taken hose, shoes, jacket and skirt etc. with me, but had forgoten to bring a top, I kept my grey (boy) shirt on however I was very happy and comfortable with my presentation, and enjoyed a coffee and sandwich at the Nero's on the High Street. After that I trawled through the charity shops, although very tempted by a pink dress suit, I decided it was too light a colour and couldn't see anything else that would be good for me.

Next I drove down to Westerham the location of my favorite Charity Shop, "Sue Ryders" it is the people who make this shop special for me, they are so friendly and helpfull, I tried on a couple of pairs of jeans and a dress, but none of them fitted me, the GG manager went to her back store room and found several other dresses for me to try on. Although I had not intended to buy anything specific, she came up with a Lilac jersey type dress that I think suited me perfectly, and all for only £4.90! I left that shop floating on air, my purchase and the attention I had recieved made me feel like a million dollars even though I had only spent a fiver.

After that I drove into Croydon I only needed a new watch strap, but had a bit of a wander around and found that there was a "Special" going on in the "Centrale" shopping mall (one of three in Croydon). With any purchase of £10 you could have a free make over, Hair, Nails or make up. I had already spent that so I went straight for the make up. There was a little wait, but the girl who did me was so helpfull and friendly the whole experience was a real treat. Not only did she make me look much more atractive and feminine than I had ever before, she also gave me a lot of tips on how to improve my presentation and suggested some products that would be good for me all in all this just made me feel even more special. On the way home I popped into "the Bird" the pub I'm meeting some other Gurls at tonight, partly to check out the lie of the land and partly because I just wanted to extend my time dressed, and made up so pretty!

So why this is all good, yes, the bad was that this was right at the end of my day out, I had to go home, which meant getting changed back into drap and taking off all the make up, bad but it had to be done, the "Ugly" well that's how I felt when I was done. Soon got over that and am enjoying the memories of a great afternoon out.

Tonight I go out to the support group, but still havn't decided what to wear, 50+ years of maleness have not prepared me for solving this problem. Should I go for a short skirt and knee boots, trousers and ankle boots, LBD and sling backs, too many choices and not enough occasions.

Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 7:43 am
by DonnaT
Sounds like the making of a great weekend.

The lilac dress or the short skirt and knee boots.

Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 8:13 am
by Paula G
I was wearing the lilac dress yesterday when I popped into "The Bird" so I think a skirt and top. I have just put up some photos from yesterday on http://cid-b78ac089d6a8c007.photos.live ... ew%20album

Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 8:51 am
by Susan
Nice pictures Paula. I am happy you had a good time.

Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 10:13 am
by Kyra
=D> =D>

Glad you were able to get out and do a little shopping! I love the dress in your pictures. It's very nice. Sometimes the unplanned events are the most memorable.

Hugs,
Kyra

Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 11:42 am
by Absaroka
Let us know how the support group went. It's a support group. You can wear what you want.

Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 12:57 pm
by Paula G
Absaroka - that's the trouble, knowing what I want to wear, or rather I want to wear it al! decision, decisions, I will post more tomorow to let you all know how it went

Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 3:18 pm
by Susan
Paula G wrote:Absaroka - that's the trouble, knowing what I want to wear, or rather I want to wear it al! decision, decisions, I will post more tomorow to let you all know how it went
I so understand that. This time of year the weather plays a big part in what I am wearing out. When its blowing a gale and pouring rain, I really don't want to wear that minidress.

Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 8:53 pm
by Paula G
Well it's 1:42 am here and I have just got home from my first support group meeting. A smashing bunch of girls, and a great night. There were another couple of new girls there tonight but one of the members had been given the "Heads up" on me coming by a member of this forum, so I felt realy welcomed. Of course all my fears were totally unfounded everyone in the pub was quite happy with us, and the landlady was particularly welcoming and helpfull - even offering to walk me back to my car if I was on my own!
That felt a bit strange at first, then I thought about where I was and how I was dressed, and I realised just how considerate an offer this was. I had decided that if I was going to wear the trousers then what's the point?, I had worn the lilac dress the day before so it had to be the black leather mini and knee boots, although I think I looked pretty good and felt great I also think I could have been quite fulnerable in this outfit, the skirt is actually quite short :oops:
This evening was just so much fun, it felt so good to be out with other people while dressed, interacting as Paula that I don't want it to end, indeed I am siting typeing this, wife and daughter up stairs in bed, while I am in the process of slowly removing Paula, trying to prolong the experience, I am now down to my slip, hose and boots. I supose it must end so now to bed

Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 9:56 pm
by Leeza
Paula, I am so glad yu enjoyed your time out. It is so much fun isn't it.

Leeza

Posted: Sun Feb 13, 2011 4:06 am
by Susan
Bravo Paula

I know the never wanting it to end feeling myself. Its too late for you now. The cat is out of the bag for you now. I hope one day soon we can have a night out together somewhere.

Posted: Sun Feb 13, 2011 4:25 am
by Paula G
Thanks Susan, I'll look forward to that, just need the excuse for some travellling. You're right about the cat being out of the bag, I've just got up and am still buzzing!

Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 6:14 am
by Kittie
Paula G wrote:I was wearing the lilac dress yesterday when I popped into "The Bird" so I think a skirt and top. I have just put up some photos from yesterday on http://cid-b78ac089d6a8c007.photos.live ... ew%20album
What lovely pictures!

Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 9:54 am
by Paula G
I'm popping this in here as I seem to have started a quite few new topics lately, and don't want to hog the agenda, it's just that a lot seems to be happening in Paula's life right now. This coming weekend I shall be driving down to Cardiff, I can't be dressed while with my mother, however Paula will be doing the driving each way, and maybe some shopping in Cardiff on Saturday morning, not sure of the timetable on Sunday but there will definetly be some Paula time built in, then I am hopefull of another outing next Wednesday although I haven't finalised my arrangements yet, and then a couple of weekends later another trip.

The excitement is that I have a trip to France on my own. It will be a little strange since I will be taking my van - Gloria - an old Ford Transit, but I will have from Friday Morning till Monday evening with just one meeting point on the Sunday. There will be a lot of driving to do but again I think Paula can handle that along with some sight seeing, just not so sure about the evenings, anyone any ideas on how accomadating the french might be?

Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 3:39 pm
by Gillian
Don't stop with the new topics. I enjoy and want to hear and know about whats going on in your life. Finding out how like minded others think has been a help to me in my journey through this life. We all get to pick and choose what we want to read, but I can't read what you do not write. Keep going!