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recognized

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 9:27 pm
by Ralitsa
it's official, I've been "found out".
The last time I came back to the states from Bulgaria, as I was going through Bulgarian passport control at the airport, I noticed the guy checking my passport seemed to be sort of amused. There was another guy and girl there with him and they were talking about something. Then the girl asked about my earrings, and we talked for a few seconds about that. There was no trouble and I went on, but I was thinking that they were probably talking about me, and since I've been through there many times one or more of them had probably seen me before, although I didn't really remember any of them.
Of course, everyone at the airport in Allentown, PA knows me because I go through there dozens of times a year. And this time one of the TSA ladies asked me about my kids, how they were doing, etc. Last summer my kids went with me back to Wisconsin, and she remembered them, which sort of surprised me.
But returning to Bulgaria yesterday, I was changing planes in CDG (Paris) and going to catch one of the intra-airport busses and one of the security ladies recognozed me. I think it was the earrings (I usually wear Silver Forest and they are quite unique) which she noticed first. Then she said something like "Hey, I've seen you here before!" Since there were some people behind me I only said "yes, I've been here a few times before." But as I was waiting for the bus to get there she came over to me and we talked for a little bit.
So CDG isn't one of my usual airports, I've only been through there maybe 5-6 times, so I was rather surprised to find someone there who recognized me. I know there probably are not too many crossdressers travelling, and I'm sure most of them "pass" and so are less noticible, but it still seems like a slim chance to cross paths with someone who has seen me before. I hope that's a good sign, and not "hey, there is that fashion disaster again." :)

Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 6:37 am
by Absaroka
We can always hope that it's a case of TSA folks being really observant.

Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 7:15 am
by Erica S
True they are observant and it was a positive reaction not negative, as it sounds. So that is good. It sounds like she was interested in having a nice conversation with you.

Erica

Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 2:04 pm
by Ralitsa
well the French are terribly polite anyway, almost to a fault. They always call me "madame" even though we all know it's a bad attempt, which is very generous of them. I think at first she was just surprised, and after that curious. But it was nice to be treated a little special anyway.

Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 9:25 pm
by Davita
Well Ralitsa, now you just don't have to worry about being found out. As for whether you're a fashion disaster? Girl... ask them. :)

Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2011 1:08 pm
by Ralitsa
I have one person here in Bulgaria whom I ask such questions of. Probably you've read in other posts that I've spent a lot of money at one particular shop here, where the lady gives me good advice. What I like about her, she's not afraid to tell me when something doesn't look good, even when I like it. Of course the problem about that is she can only comment on what she sees, when I'm in the US I can't really get her advice. So until I get a live-in fashion advisor, I guess I will suffer the insecurity of thinking myself a fashion disaster.