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Had a great time this weekend on Friday and Saturday night . Before I go any further I just say a special thanks to my beautiful girlfriend who encouraged and who has been completely supportive of my crossdressing. So on Friday night we got dressed up. I had a mid-length black skirt, a cute pink top, black stockings and black heels. My make-up looked basically like my avatar pic. We got dressed up and snuck out to our car and headed to a drag club about an hour away. I was so nervous going there . But once we got id'd and had our first drink I felt fine. It felt so great to be out in public all dressed up. Everyone there was pretty nice. We stayed around 2hrs and decided we would come back on Saturday when we had more time. On the way home we even stopped by a waffle house to eat. I pretty much just kept my head down the whole time, but made it through it without stressing to much.

On Saturday after I got off work we packed outfits for the night and headed to the mall. We were planning on just getting a few small things that we needed for the night, but we found a great sale on dresses . We found a dress that I fell in love with. So after the mall we checked into a hotel near the club we were going to. We got dressed, I ended up wearing my new dress, I will post a pic of it when I can. I felt so sexy wearing my long black curly wig with my new red and black flowery dress, not to mention how smooth my freshly shaven legs felt with my black stockings on. I also wore my 6 inch silver glittery heels that make my legs look so sexy. We had such a great night. I had several guys compliment me on my outfit and my looks , and had a couple of crossdressers tell me how lucky I was to have such an understanding gf. I so can't wait to go out again.

WOW !, 6" heels oh my acking feet . Now the best part is you will never forget the first time out and from here on the sky is the limit, did you try your new dress on at the store?.

Good for you, I've been thinking of trying drag or other types of gay clubs that have some crossdressers, espec here in NYC, but would def feel more comfortable going with someone. It gives me hope reading posts from some of you who have girlfriends, which has always been tough for me to find. I wonder if women would be interested in a man who is feminine, so I'll keep looking, and hopefully will go out sometime soon. I'll probably do what you did, sneak in the car at night, and go someplace where it is more acceptable, then maybe try the mall.

Congratulations! It is always best to have someone to share outings with. Especially your first.You are one lucky girl.

Congratulations on having the courage to go out Valarie. Oh for the day when I have the courage and support of my Wife to also go out. It sounds that you had an exciting and pleasurable time.

Going out initially can be nerve wracking but I can tell you from experience if you dress appropriately for the venue that you are going to most of the time you will be fine. Most people are polite enough to ignore you if they notice something - many will never even take notice of you .

Having a "wing woman" certainly helps build courage

Bravo to your wonderful girl friend!!!

Be mighty proud of yourself

Diane

Thanks everyone... it was really a great weekend and hope to do it again real soon .I hope ya'll take the chance when you can.