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I was at the bank and noticed that a hispanic lady was giving me the once over. When I left she was waiting just outside the door. She complimented me on my boots. Said she liked the look. I was tempted to say that I was a crossdresser but I told her that "I felt more comfortable in womens size shoes. I always wear them. and I like the hight." This is the truth. Of cource she could have guessed that I was a crossdresser because everything that she could see was atyred in womens style.

I then went to the supermarket and on the way in I met a new employee, a young girl, and she thought it was funny and chucled while asking me why I had on heels. Most of the employees are used to seeing me in my fem atyer. I should have shocked this girl and told her that I crossdressed, but I told the same thing that I told the woman at the bank.

I wasn't totally madeup so it was easy to tell that I was a man.

Rhanda

I missed my point. If you start wearing some of the less femm things on a regular basis to the places that know you and gradually add something and gradually add some makeup, most people will not say anything.

I for one don't care what anyone thinks. I have gone too many years in secret and don't have many years left to enjoy being Rhanda.

I still haven't gotten any skirts or dresses.

Good for you Rhanda. Now you should go and get some skirts or a dress. Coupled with pantyhose/nylons they feel wonderful and it also completes the look. Enjoy what you are comfortable in and like to wear.

Hugs,

Erica

I plan to get some skirts and maybe a dress. I don't want to grose people out so I will try to get used to skirts in private. I now sometimes go out in tights and get some good looks but no remarks. My wife thinks I have very sexy legs and doesn't like me to go out in just tights.

Have fun.

Rhanda

At least she is willing to work with you and your wardrobe, at least it sounds like it. Have fun shopping.

Hugs,

Erica

In another place I told that I got a nice wrap dress. It is black and hugs my figure to accent my good figure. My wife had gotten used to my wearing the only skirt that I have and doesn't say much about it, but when I put on the new dress and wore it around the house, she acted shocked and said that she thought I shouldn't wear it in public,
Well, I don't have any hair and without a wig I am not about to go in public in a little black dress.
I am shopping for a wig that I can style to wear in both genders. This will be expensive so, I will have to be patient.

Rhanda

So many women don't wear heels anymore that when you wear them, particularly in a store, bank, restaurant, etc. that has wood or tile floors where they make noise when you walk every notices. When they look and do not see a woman as they expect but rather a man they are obviously going to notice. Just remember it is your life and live it the way that makes you happy.

Good luck wig shopping. I am fortunate that at 63 I still have a full head of hair and love wearing it long. Still I have a couple of wigs to change my look just because it is a woman's prerogative to do so! I do admit the BF loves it when I wear one, he says its like having an affair just for the change of pace. Not sure how I feel about that but I do admit he is extra attentive when I wear one, especially the blonde one. What is about men and blondes?

I have men's boots with Cuban heels. Love the sound when in drab. I have got many compliments on my boots and heels when femmed up out and about. A girl loves compliments!

Good grief! Get online and order a few dresses skirts and tops pumps, heels and sandles for crying out loud! Of course you can enjoy wearing them in the privacy of your own home...they are wonderful...It is wonderful when you are feeling very femm to enjoy wearing a dress or a skirt and a top they are very comfortable and to wear at home there are all kinds of casual dresses and skirts and tops to have in your wardrobe.

Gee...I may not be out there very much but In the privacy of your own home you have every right to be who you are and to wear whatever your heart desires....don't deny yourself the freedom to be who you really are at times...If this is you all the time then all the more reason to enjoy the full range of women's clothing.

Golly!