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I'm a bit of an exhibitionist & I like to dress revealing, slutty, sexy, however you want to say it. I don't go out often but I do stay in a lot of hotels & sometimes I venture out. My question is, what can I get away with without getting arrested? Can I show stocking tops? I'm not going out in broad daylight, I'm talking about at night in a 'bar' area, like downtown. Can I wear this?http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i210/ ... d1824f.jpg

Hi Shania, considering your question and looking at the picture, the first thing I can say is, WOW! Ok that out of the way, my opinion would be that it is your choice. I have lots of short skirts that show a lot of thigh but I wouldn't venture wearing them out day or night. If you are looking for attention then I say go for it, but if you are just going out to just have some fun then a longer skirt would be better. Again though, it is personal choice, personally I would wear anything that short out, even though I could. Be safe.

What are you attempting to accomplish? Dressed like that you will get more than a few eyes on you. Second, in a "better" hotel, there are enough "do gooders" who would not hesitate to call either the front desk to have securrity check you out, ID, room key, etc. or worse yet if you are by yourself, 911 that a woman of "questionable virtue" is in the bar, lobby then you had better have explanation, ID, room key when the cops show up. Prostitution is illegal in most states and in Nevada, you best hope the cops show up before the mafia or pimps.

It could get ugly real quick, but if you can live with that and are prepared to endure the consequences, especially when you "get read," be it by the cops, or in lock-up, your more woman that I am!

You better think about all this AGAIN!

Virginia

Ugh! Please don't do this in public. It does incredible harm to the drive for acceptance of crossdressers, transsexuals, and other gender variant people than it does good. Plus, IMHO, such a public display is extremely demeaning to GGs -- those whom by our emulation we claim to love so much that we want to be like them

Toni-Lynn

Normally, people don't get arrested for what they are wearing, unless it involves indecent exposure.

You could draw unwanted attention from the law, but as long as you aren't soliciting, they can't stop you from dressing as you desire. Depending on where you are, of course. Most places don't have a law forbidding CDing (freedom of expression/speech).

However, some places can attempt to charge you with, for example, disturbing the peace, a catch all charge that normally gets dropped, but not until you've spent time in the local jail with undesirables.

Shania,
First thing that came to my mind when I saw the pic was, "how much for ...." It's going to be interesting when the cop rolls up to ask what you're up to.....

Shania,

I would think you would be flirting with danger and the possibility of being beat up, raped, or harmed in some way dressing like that. If a guy hits on you and the revelation that you are in fact a man makes him angry, watch out! Please think twice, then think again!

Shania,

There are ways to dress sexy, yet not slutty. You're inviting big trouble, more trouble than if you were actually female. Pushing limits may be your personal thrill, but it does great harm to the CD/TG community. How you are dressed and act is the worst nightmare for a struggling to accept spouse.

Listen to what's been said and make your own choice. But if you continue this way, don't be surprised if someday you find yourself at the wrong end of a curbside SRS.

Eileen

"curbside SRS...."

I like that.

Virginia

I do not know the laws of America or the State that you are within Shania, however, do not ever attempt to dress like that in public in New South Wales, Australia for your own safety.

In the wrong suburb or town you would certainly end up as a victim of very unpleasant physical behaviour from unwarranted male attention.

While I appreciated your traits for attention seeking, I do not believe that this is the image that most of us "gurls" would like to present as.

If we are moving towards continued acceptance in the community I believe that we would need to present ourselves in a positive, accepting and mature manner; not in the image that you would like to display.

However, it is your decision, but please be safe.

THIS NOT something I would do or recommend, and I have been FT since 89, that being said I do love to to been seen as an attractive woman. But appropriate to the time, place and or venue, a nice diner spot calls for some class and a trendy Club for some Flash.
I have and wear both.

I wear Tailored Skirt suits and Pant suit a lot. Skirts and tops and tailored blouses, I do have a lot of slacks/pants and love my skinny jeans. I love and have a lot of leggings many the tight shiny ones in many colors and I wear them around house to get Mani ped'is and to shop, often with man tailored shirt or a mid thigh sweater or sweater dress. I dress to fit the occasion and the time of day. Look at what other woman are wearing at malls store and diner lunch.

MY only no no is I do not have or wear flats I get severe leg cramps and back discomfort in any under 3 1/2 inch so most all I have is 4 and up lot of 4 and 4 1/2inch some higher. Even MY work out or running type shoe are wedge sneakers. I just wore too high a heel for work for so many years my body adjusted and I guess I will be in heels for rest of my time.

There are GLTG clubs that would welcome the exhibition you are implying form your photo so be safe and in public is not place to do this safely!
Alexis DeVille