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To begin, I should mention that I am in the closet but close to the door. That being said, my S/O has been away for the past few days for her job. When I found out this was going to happen I began purchasing my own attire. So for the past 3 days, when I got home from work, I became Laycee. Although I didn't do anything special while I was Laycee, it was still a wonderful feeling. Because I was Laycee, I felt free of most anything. I did have a drink or two on my back porch. My S/O will be returning tomorrow so my time as Laycee comes to a beautiful end....at least until her next business trip!

That is wonderful Kaycee. I remember those days as they were not far in my past although I admit to to never having an SO back then. Your time will come when you step into the light. You will know when it is right but regardless, enjoy!

Thank you and i know, when it's time....it's time!

Laycee,
So happy for you, that you time alone, and took advantage of it.
The sooner you can "comfortably"
discuss this with your bride, the happier you'll be. I HOPE.
Just make sure she knows that this is not the new you. You have always had the desire/urge/need, whatever you care to call it. And that it does not change your love and desire for her. It hasn't in the past, and won't now.
It worked/helped for me and my bride.
Good luck and hugs.

Hanna wrote:Laycee,

Just make sure she knows that this is not the new you. You have always had the desire/urge/need, whatever you care to call it. And that it does not change your love and desire for her. It hasn't in the past, and won't now.
It worked/helped for me and my bride.
Good luck and hugs.

Great advice Hanna...thank you!

Sounds like you had a wonderful time Laycee. I echo Hanna words to you. Requal became less stressed and appeared more after I shared her with my wife.

I am so late to this...I told my wife after 7 years of marriage....I just could not stand it anymore. We had a strong marriage and we loved each other. Yes, it was difficult...and it did take time for her to process it all and to understand it and what it all meant. She loved ME more and in the end it was alright...certain little boundaries were there...not when our boys were around, no going out into public, the timing needed to be ok...stress, mood wise etc...but yep I could breath and be from time to time and that was the most wonderful thing, a very major step for her to see me in a bra in the bedroom...and panties as I dressed it was new for both of us, myself in that she was the first person I had ever disclosed this to.

This was in the mid 1990's about 1997 or 8....gee nearly 20 years have passed and now lots of people know and have visited when I have expressed myself outwardly in my appearance...I cannot tell you ...you will find out if you grow how exceptionally wonderful it feels inside to be acknowledged and accepted by other people who support you and are fine.

I have been out only a very few times in my life in public...I did have my nails done twice in a spa...that is so good...the massage when you pay for the works is wonderful. I have had my hair done in a salon a few times too. And though I am 60...I am probably in the best shape of my life ever, really! And I do intend to grow into the public realm ...Peace, Anne.