Intolerance Rears its Ugly Head Again

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CJ
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Hi all,

Well, this is becoming interesting. I used to work in a video game arcade and the owner made no bones about refusing to let in some people he considered "undesirable." It was always a highly personal decision for him; he never felt the need to justify his decision to bar someone from the arcade. His argument? What looks like a "public space" is, in fact, a space (and service) provided by a private, and privately-owned, company (that of his family): as such, he is well within his rights to offer or deny his services to whomever he very well pleases. I'm still not sure what to make of his view of things. :-k

We always worked the shift alone (i.e., each of the three employees had their own shift) and, aside from an early morning visit to pick up the previous day's take, the boss was rarely there. He did drop by on occasion, and, once, he caught an "undesirable" playing a VLT. The boss came up to me and asked why I let him in and let him play. "Because," I said, "in the hour and a half he's been here, he's already spent $400." I told him that I wanted his business to be healthy because, in the end, the customers are the ones who gave me my paycheck, not the boss. If he didn't want to deal with "undesirables," then he should just stand back and let us front-line people deal with them. In the five years I worked there, I only met one customer I could consider undesirable (bomb threats, death threats, threats against the lives of my boss's daughters) and I did the sensible thing and let the local PD deal with this individual (he'd stabbed my colleague through the hand with an X-Acto knife).

Anyway, all this to say that, as opposed to my grumbly, opinionated, boss, all three of us had become masters of diplomacy and tactfulness. Given the kind of money that customers spent there, we had to be. And I was never taken with his argument that he had a right to pick and choose who could play. It just didn't make much sense to me, from a business standpoint, let alone from a legal standpoint. I'm not sure what Montreal's by-laws have to say about discrimination, but I do know the Quebec Charter of Rights and Freedoms prohibits it (here's a link to the full Charter, for reference: http://publicationsduquebec.gouv.qc.ca/ ... C12_A.html). The meat of the Charter is in the first four Chapters--the first 48 Paragraphs--and Paragraph 15 would seem to suggest my boss was wrong in his thinking. I know that East of Eight would be in hot water, if the club were in Montreal, just as much as it appears to be right now down there.

I'll be following this with interest. Of course, if it were up to me, as management, I'd make a public apology to the TG community, and fire that bartender's butt!

Love,
CJ
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Lorna
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Post by Lorna »

Hey CJ,

You are beautiful!!! =D>

I shall keep you posted as details further unfold... 8)
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Post by Elizabeth »

Hi Lorna,

I have a bit of a funny story to tell you. When I was 23, me and my 25 year old brother started our first Electrical contracting business. And I had occasion to work for this man who was obviously in a midage crisis. He had a very young wife, and his livingroom had more exercise equipment than furniture.

He was very rude and watched me like a hawk to make sure I was not looking at his girlfriend who was obviously about my age. I kept my mouth shut and did the work, and did it in a timely manner. I had to put custom controls on his hot tub that he could operate from inside the tub. I really did a good job, he paid the bill, I left.

Several months later he called while I was in the office talking to my brother. The phone rang and my brother answered it, listened for a few minutes then stopped talking and covered the mouthpeice and told me who it was. It was the man I had done the hot tub controls for.

I told my brother "I don't want to work for that guy, he is an a$$h*le." My brother then uncovered the mouthpiece and said "my brother don't want to work for you, he says your an a$$h*le". He paused and listened for a minute and recovered the mouthpeice of the phone and said "he promises he won't be there when you do the work". I ageed to do it if he was not there, and I installed an incredible ceiling mount JBL speaker system in his bedroom for his Kenwood sound system which was state of the art at the time. And billed him accordingly.

The moral of the story is, all customers have the same color money, and there is no need to get personal in relieiving them of it. This gentleman was a good customer over the years and gave us many referals. Also, he was never there when I did the work for him. Only to tell me what he wanted done.

Love always,
Elizabeth
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Post by Mellissa »

Well i work as a printer in a printing compagnie who is mainly very very
cristian believes
So when you print this stuff you intend to read it and i can tell this religion does not hold a warm place for people like us according to them we should all burn in hell
But i dont take it personal anymore it pays my bills and also it pays for my skirts and stockings hahaha if they only knew
but if my boss wouldt try to terror me couse he would find out about my crossdressing i wouldt quit in a sec i think i deserve some respect and if i wouldt not get it i would leave
but i dont think that will ever happen

like tom cruise yelled SHOW ME THE MONEEEEY !!!!!!!! lol

Mellissa <oooo>
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Post by Alexandra »

Elizabeth, I liked that story!

I am wondering how that guy got his young wife and girlfriend to get along??!!!

:lol: :lol: (just kidding, I know its a typo thing!)
Alexandra
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