Q1) How long will it take for us to get past the *package* and into the *goods* ???
Q2) How long will it be before *Flat Earth Mindsets* are put into *Humanity's History Books* ???
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IMHO ???
A1) Our *NEXT* Lives !!!
Gosh, I sure hope it's sooner than that I for one am tired of being judged based on my appearance. A lot of men are just plain rude, staring and leering at me I feel like an object not a person. Even when I am in my men's attire, I still draw way too much attention for my liking. I just don't know how to change that at all. Maybe I will start wearing a sign that says "I AM WHOLE PERSON NOT A SEX OBJECT". Sigh.....I don't think that will work, though
*Hugs & Love*
Blessings Eternal, Jassmine
"Love is unconditional acceptance. That quality is also our essential nature, who we really are."
--Peter Shepherd
Hi Jassmine,
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Tnx for the welcome mat landing ... good thing I "snuck" in ... as it is I already gave Lorna a bloody nose with my Wild & Krazy Ways ... thankfully Beauty helped get her to the hospital for mopping up
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Your point on the "looks" you get as a GGirl are interesting ... yesterday I was given the "evileye" by an urban, career type GGirl because I was "looking" at her ... there was no point in stopping to explain to her that I was *not* fantasizing about "having *Her*" ...
Rather, I thought she was unbecoming ... and I was fantasizing about "what a waste of good female body parts on *Her* when I would have gladly worn them with dignity and pride"
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So much for Cosmic Lottery Tickets
Love / Marda
~ Some drink at the fountain of knowledge - Others just gargle ~
Marda, you are most welcome I have also noticed women like that. *Shrug* they may have been attractive physically, but beyond that there wasn't much else appealing about them. And these are usually the type of women who give me the evil eye, too I just don't understand that
I also handle the staring a leering in a much more polite manner. I usually just smile at whomever it is, and go about my business. I just don't see the point in being rude in return. What goes around, comes around
*Hugs & Love*
Blessings Eternal, Jassmine
"Love is unconditional acceptance. That quality is also our essential nature, who we really are."
--Peter Shepherd
I have just read this thread for the first time. At one time (along time ago) I wanted desperately to be treated as a woman, by a woman. I no longer have that desire and am content to be a man in womans clothes, with a wig, jewelery, and occasionally lipstick.
I am attracted to those like Ava, who have the ability to perfect the artistic aspect of beauty. I find her and those like her extremely attractive, (Very Beautiful) but I do not want to see what is under the clothes.
To try to respond to the original question - it appears from the responses that confusion of one sort or another is common. Certainly I have had years (decades) of confusion.
Unfortunately (or not), my fantasies are not G rated, so I dare not discuss them here. Feel free to PM. My number one reason for not pursuing SRS is a happy strong committed marriage of over 27 years. (#2 is the high cost, #3 the inevitable loss of career position, and #4 is the medical risk of infection and other complications, #5 the pain and recovery period itself.) However, currently, my marriage is borderline sexually dysfunctional. It hasn't always been that way. I refuse to place any blame, as this is terribly - terribly complicated.
No, I definitely do not want to see what is under your skirt, yet I do watch your hemline with almost uncontrollable interest. I do not understand all of this - some days even less than others.
Would I want to see what is under your skirt - after SRS? That is another non-G-rated question. Can fantasies involve a self-perception that is post-SRS? I think so.
Is my answer as dissappointing as the recent NASA Genesis probe? Yes - me too! So much to learn, and so little time.
How many hetero CDs can honestly say that they really love women including their SOs?
The reason I ask is that I believe that many of us are just in love with the IDEA of womanhood, rather than with a particular person, and we try to create the ideal woman in ourselves.
Do we actually verge on becoming narcissistic, because the woman we love more than any other is the one we have created from our own body or in our own imagination? Is that consistent with being able to really love another woman?
Sorry to sound self-deprecating. No doubt many of you happily married or matched-up CDs out there will find my suggestion outrageous or disturbing.
Let me have your views. I'll probably have to duck to avoid the brick-bats.
hmmm no i'm not attracted to men as i can remember
i'm have a big intrest in women
I always had all my friends tell me i'm an huge flirt when it comes to women
I always have a way to communicate easy with them and not just for a cheap come on but i just feel relaxed just talking with them
And i love watching them in summer when they parade on the beach or in the cafe's in there skirts (i live at the coast 2 miles from the beach)
God i love women can look at them for hours
so no i'm not bi-sexual
Aim for heaven because if you miss your target you end up among the stars
Ginny, I think you just gave me another piece of the puzzle to my life.
I am definitly in love with the idea of womanhood, to the point that it controls my life, I do not control it. I am also of a narcissistic nature, When I go out, I'll walk down the street looking in shop windows at my image. I think that is why I am not able to love someone completly. It is because I am in love with myself. It's funny how I have to read this in order to understand myself, that I couldn't see it for myself.
Thanks Ginny, sometimes I have to hear words from someone else to understand my feelings.
Love Amelie
PS-You can catch my kisses, but duck the brick-bats
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I for one am tired of being judged based on my appearance. A lot of men are just plain rude, staring and leering at me 
I feel like an object not a person. Even when I am in my men's attire, I still draw way too much attention for my liking. 
I just don't know how to change that at all. Maybe I will start wearing a sign that says "I AM WHOLE PERSON NOT A SEX OBJECT". Sigh.....I don't think that will work, though 
get her to the hospital for mopping up 
by an urban, career type GGirl because I was "looking" at her ... there was no point in stopping to explain to her that I was *not* fantasizing about "having *Her*" ...
I have also noticed women like that. *Shrug* they may have been attractive physically, but beyond that there wasn't much else appealing about them. And these are usually the type of women who give me the evil eye, too 
