Hazards of wearing a pad

[Debbie Jean]

i cut the grass this afternoon. Because I get so hot and sweaty doing that, I usually just wear a tank top and daisy dukes. Wearing a pad in my panties also helps soak up perspiration 'down under'.

I ran out of gas, so I threw the gas can in the car and went to the gas station. When I was bent over and filling the gas can, one of the 'wings' on my pad came un-stuck from my panty crotch and just hung down between my legs. I didn't realize that until I got home and my wife told me about it. Then I understood the reason for all the wolf whistles at the gas station.

Oh well, as they often say: another happy day in paradise!

hugs,
Deb

[Requal Jo]

An embarrassment that turned into a pleasant event for you Deb.

[Eileen (SO)]

Dear Deb, women do not wear pads to soak up perspiration and would be horrified is some wing showed in public. In reality, there are times when a lady shouldn't wear a certain outfit because 'it's that time of the month'. Daisy Dukes are one example. Generally, men aren't as observant as you may think. The wolf whistles were because you were bending over in shorty pants. A pad showing should be a turn off, I would think.

Eileen

[Debbie Jean]

Eileen,
Since I had no direct conversation with any of the whistlers, their reasons for whistling would be at best mere conjecture on my part (or anybody else's part). However I know that I did enjoy the whistles regardless of their motives. I always enjoy wolf whistles when in public, doesn't make any difference if the whistler is male of female, young or old, etc.

Deb

[Eileen (SO)]

I always enjoy wolf whistles when in public, doesn't make any difference if the whistler is male of female, young or old, etc.

Ok, you enjoy the attention regardless of the reasons why. This wife of a CD would insist she dress more modestly, and not in daylight in the neighborhood. I didn't mean to seem judgmental, just a gentile reminder that dressing as a woman is more than showing off body parts. Then again, plenty of women are show offs.
You've told me that the pad wearing makes the dressing more authentic for your needs. Now you know to be more careful when wearing them.

I have to ask, when doing yard work, are you all femme? Boobs, hair and make up? I would hope so.

Eileen

[Debbie Jean]

Dear Eileen,
In answer to your question about yard work, I present myself in another of different ways, depending on the mood I find myself in when I wake up in the morning, also of course depending on the weather. Summing up then, on any given day it may be total drab or total femme or anywhere in between. One neighbor put it best when she said: "well I just never know from one day to the next exactly what to expect from you". I guess I enjoy keeping people off-balance that way---good insurance against "pigeon holing".

have a good day,
Deb

[Anne Bonny]

Wow...I have no reason to wear a pad or use a tampon...but I do fold up 4 layers of toilet paper and position it so that any drips of urine do not wet the front of my panties after sitting on the commode to pee. I would never want to wear male panties with the extra layer of cloth in front because when I am a girl I am a girl. I never get that sweaty I am at my true weight and am fit, besides when I am doing the rough tough guy stuff I feel quite masculine and am in no mood to dress feminine, when I am doing guy stuff I am a guy and dress guy. If I am doing lighter around the house stuff...traditional "female work" lighter things seem to be suited to wearing feminine clothing...dishes, cooking, etc.... Home maintenance vs automechanics, and heavy filthy dirty masculine tasks...mowing the yard and when I do that I dress in work clothes which are nearly warn out why ruin good clothes!? I keep my nice guy clothes for going out or hanging out separate If I work and do heavy things I am in guy mode and wear the stained, ripped, torn worn guy things because they are going to become soaked with sweat, snagged and filthy, and when even they are horrible I throw them away. But I could never do that to my girl clothes! Girl things are just suited to lighter and more feminine tasks when I am feeling quite feminine, I don't always but when I do and am dressed, but mowing the lawn...never!

[Eileen (SO)]

Girls mow lawns too! I've unstopped a sink drain, changed a car's oil, and checked tire pressure. No matter how good a husband is, he can't do everything or be everywhere. I have grubbies to wear for these and yard work chores.

Maybe, Deb, you just have a nice tushie. Here's a whistle for you,

Eileen