If you were given the chance to become a woman- would you?

Tell us about the things you like to do, and what you do, when you go out en femme. All other topics will be moved to appropriate forum.

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Nancy
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Could we take half the pill? As much as it has always been a dream of mine to be a full time woman, even a female at times, I have some reservations as to what it would really be like to be a full time woman?

It seems to me that GG's are quite occupied with other things that we as males are not privy to? As if to say, a male that lives as a woman or who has SRS to become a female still has a male history and brain. One doesn’t fully become a member of the opposites sex. To my understanding, SRS does not change ones brain or lifes experiences? Therefore, to me living full time as a woman or female would be, for me, to be living as a male in a woman’s world and to mimic being one.

If taking the pill would change everything so that I would actually become the opposite sex, mind, body, sprit and all, then the answer would be NO! If I could take half the pill and be a male woman (MW) then it would be YES! Even living full time as a male woman, I could when needed, present and be the seemingly male person I am expected to be, for and by others. In fact I do know a full timer that keeps one set of guys things so that when she visits her parents she presents her self to them as their son. Even though they know she lives full time as a woman.

Hope this makes some sense?
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Brendas answer spoke volumes. "If I could be a pretty girl" For those of us who are only moderately attractive middle aged men, we should perhaps assume that this pill renders us moderately attractive middle aged women, not pretty young girls

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id say yes, as long as i could afford it
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I'm like Kyra, there's a part of me that says yea, in a heartbeat, and another that says, no way! Occasionally I wish that I had been born female. However, I've seen what my wife has gone through with bearing a child, menopause and other GG things. I'm glad I missed those things.

However, when I was about 13-14 I often went to bed praying that I would wake as a girl and it would have been as though I had always been one. I still sometimes wish that.

At this stage in my life, I'll say that if the effect was temporary, then, yes! As to full time I don't really know; perhaps.

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I can only echo Alana's comment, word for word. I have certain parts of my male life that I do enjoy and wouldn't want to give up.

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Without a shadow of a doubt. Give me the pill and I'll finally be happy.
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would i know if technology was good enough become a man No i don't want to loose harry and i would never want to be a transformed man if someone had asked me before birth what gender i would be i think male would have been a better choice because i think life might have been easier no periods no birth no social pressure to wear makeup could of made love to women and men instead of being made love too etc but I'm ok with being a girl in the context of my life. its ok.
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I'd vote no, cause of family and the joy of dressing.
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Post by Debra Russell »

Well there are times I wish I were a genetic woman and have told my wife I would like to trade places with her - not permanently but for a while 2 Hr, a few days or something. It would be great to experience a real female life for a while, she thinks I am crazy & don't know what I am asking for.
I think I would like to be reincarnated as a woman but I like being male, just not all the time :?
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Would it be as great as we think?

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A fundamental part of my turn-on is to imagine what it must be like to be truly (as in biologically) female. Obviously, part of this fantasy would be to experience sex as a woman. The various story and cartoon sites that feature transformation stories ending with the transformed man having sex as a female seem to indicate that this is a common fantasy.

My question is whether the sexual act would be a huge disapointment if we were to actually experience female love-making and orgasm. In the stories, the orgasm is typically amazingly intense and, since it is impossible to compare the experiences, we like to accept this as part of the fantasy.

The only evidence I have for thinking that the female orgasm is underwhelming is the comparative apathy of females regarding the sex act. Now, please don't jump on me because some women love sex. I know that to be the case and do not mean to insult or denigrate your female friends, or lovers. Still, having read a lot of female literature, my impression is that the sex act is merely the culmination of sexual flirting and non-sexual touching is almost of equal importance. If the female orgams was as intense as the male orgasm, I cannot believe this would be the case.

Other theories I have read state that, although the female orgams is great, mansy women are wired genetically not to enjoy sex, since in ancient times sex equaled babies and disease. Even the scientists cannot really prove that this is true. Perhaps some of you have a different explanation?

With that said, I spend about three hours trying to look feminine, where the average female simply rises from bed, showers and applies makeup, and is out the door. thus, my vote would be to experience the other side of the gender experience- despite the possible risk to my sexual experience.



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Once upon a time, maybe. Now, nah!!
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Post by DanteCarrie (FTM) »

Johanna.

You know what I get what you mean if the female orgasm is soo good why are some women. Not all but a good porportion less sexual. Younger women have more sex but they don't seem to be as pervy or driven by the sex itself.
I mean how many women do you see leering over guys or laughing and teasing their friends about bloody hell I'd tap that or jokes about masterabtion.
They are far more reserved and often many seem less obsessed with sex as men.
I have possible theories on this 1) the female orgasm rocks but many women find it hard to achieve and unlike men do not achieve it everytime during sex or even usually so don't necessarily associate sex with orgasm?
2) orgasm and sex drive aren't the same thing testosterone in both genders controls sex drive if a woman has a low level of this her interest in sex will be lower
3) they are repressed and need a really good shag and should stop being so worried about the way people see them and be more open like men
4) they are aliens from another planet and only about 5% of women are real I.e. myself

1 and 2 are probably most scientific but I tend to believe 3 and 4. I don't get women I never have I have very few female friends i think I have zero straight female friends i relate to on any level. I ahve a sister are opinions on sex are totally different.
My sister's sex drive is very caught up in whether she feels sexy and her partner makes her feel sexy. If hes not putting in effort she is not aroused. Also she doesn't orgasm everytime.

Me hehe I think the female orgasm is better than the male orgasm. Why? my partner likes sex and we have alot of sex but my sex drive is sooo much bigger than his. i mean hes adorable nicknames for me include pervert and rapist. I don't do coy I know what i want when I want and i normally want it alllll the time. I just through myself at him tbh.
I love sex i masterabte very often because i think the feeling is so great. the whole experience including the intense orgasm and i orgasm pretty much everytime we have sex normally multiple times. and yeah I'm a huge perv I joke baout sex and perv on women.
Thats why sexually i feel like a man My sex drive and nature is that of a teenage boy.
Very personal over share there but your point interests me. From my personal experience the female orgasm and sex in general rocks and i have a huge interest in sex. But i agree with you in that in comparrison to most women i feel like an alien i think it might be the repressed thing with chicks because they seem to get embarrassed so easy and i make them uncomfortable whereas my lesbian friends are much more open and up for it and have higher sex drives. what does this say? I'm unsure perhaps higher testosterone levels in lesbians and bi women there has been some evidence done in research to suggest this but the studies need to be done on a bigger pool of people to be more conclusive.
Anyway maybe straight girls haven't have good sex well they can't borrow my babe so sod the lot of them.
But yeah there are real women non aliens out there and we lurve sex and our orgasms kick your orgasms backside :P ooo evidence for this women tend to be loud during sex men less so I dunno if this is cas they feel more stuff or lck of inhibitions maybe both in my case XD
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DanteCarrie,

Great analysis, but I have to ask if you are a woman, TG, or other. That would hlep me understand some of your comments.

I know I envy my wife's ability to have multiple orgasms today and then want sex again tomorrow morning. At my age (52) I need a day to recharge.
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If I could get a total transformation to a passable woman I think I would take it. However the ability for succeeding in woman's world should also be included, my ability to remember "important" details in enviroment and read the non verbal signs is so poor that I could have some difficulties in my woman's life.
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Post by DanteCarrie (FTM) »

I'm a girl Johanna and not trans just a crossdresser. just a poor dyke with penis envy was one defintion i heard LOL. but yeah I'm 100% biologically female.
Hence why my name says FTM female to male crossdressing :P would never ever transition though I'm way too cute LOL
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