So...what do I do now?

Terri(SO) · Post by **Terri(SO)** » Wed Nov 03, 2004 8:12 pm

Hope this is great!
Do you think your SO would like to join and tell us her perspective?

Hope · Post by **Hope** » Sat Nov 06, 2004 4:52 pm

"Of course I could think of other hobbies for him to take up, but it's one of those things that just is. There's no changing it. If I could pick anything about him to change, it wouldn't be this, it would be to get him to quit smoking! That's going to eventually shortchange me! Him wearing a dress isn't!

I feel I should let everyone know, by the way, this isn't my idea (locking up all his other clothes). But I did know it was a fantasy he has often talked about and we decided to make it happen. Perhaps he would find out it's not the bed or roses he imagined.

The one thing that sometimes bothers me is the initial impact of seeing a stranger in the house. Intellectually, I know it's him but with makeup, and a wig he looks so different. I've told him if we were out somewhere, and he didn't talk or try to hold my hand (which would be a problem since it's such a habit now), nobody would know for sure. Some might suspect, but wouldn't be sure. I don't think he's willing to venture that far though and I must say, that doesn't bother me at all.

Other than that, I don't know what else to say. It's his hobby. It's sometimes an obsession. It's just part of all that he is. And he is a kind, understanding, wonderful hubby wearing a dress, or wearing pants.

Would we change it if we could? Yes. But we can't so as long as he's willing to clean the house, do some sewing for me, occassionally cook a few meals for me, and rub my neck and feet when I want....I'm happy
Besides, this time, along with being stuck in 'fem' mode, he's on a diet. And since he can't very well go out shopping for himself, he's going to be sticking with the diet. (hmmm, perhaps a new best selling diet book?)

Kerri · Post by **Kerri** » Sat Nov 06, 2004 5:41 pm

Hi Hope and Hope SO,

I like this thread, nice and simple, no controversy, which will please Beauty.
Your living my dream. But why dont you go walkabout?

Your SO is clearly a nice lady who supports you. So dress very similarly, ie in a neutral sort of way, with minimal make-up. You know, casual skirt and top, grungy jacket and loafers. Recruit a second GG and waltz down the street as a group of GG's do. Anybody guy looking at you all, will concentrate on the "looker" if you get a whistle, thats a point to you.

Have a refuge nearby, like your car. Places to avoid - Public Parks, empty streets. Places to go to - Busy street. Go on, have some fun!

Where did you learn to make dresses? I'd like to be able to do that.
Keep us informed.....

hugs

Kerri

Hope · Post by **Hope** » Sat Nov 06, 2004 7:33 pm

Thank you so much Keri,

Yes, she is quite something. And for far more than just putting up with my CD'ing.

I just started to play with an old sewing machine several years ago. It's a really OLD singer my Mom had that I was given. After figuring out how to make the darn thing work, I bought a pattern for a skirt, some material and just tried it. Looking back on it, YECH! But, it was a start. After a coouple more tries, I graduated to a dress and never looked back. There is still so much to learn, but I've got the time (and certainly have the desire? LOL)

Today ends day six! As my DW indicated, it's also diet time. Sigh.....But I think I'll be able to stick to this diet....chuckle....since there isn't a lot of alternatives? Actually, after the third day of the 'new' food regimine, it's easy to not have bread, or any starches basically. I learned about it all too many years ago in the Service. It was called a Ketogenic diet and really takes off the weight. I understand it's used nowadays to help children with epilipsy of all things.

I'll keep you posted on the progress of the diet....and the lack of boy clothes.

Hope

Terri(SO) · Post by **Terri(SO)** » Sat Nov 06, 2004 7:44 pm

Hi Hope and Hope's SO (do you have a name too?

)
I'm enjoying hearing about this adventure of yours!
Especially glad to hear from the SO side

Hope · Post by **Hope** » Sun Nov 07, 2004 6:51 pm

Teri,

It's Deb actually. Thanks for asking. I get a little embarassed reading her comments

but I'm glad she thinks I'm the same dressed or not.

Carol Ann...It has been officially one week today (5:00 PM eastern). Whew! And since she's taken off to the big city for four or five days, it looks like I'm going to make it beyond that seven days huh? LOL

I take the wig off at night. Goodness, it would be a mess in the morning. As far as makeup goes, that's half the fun isn't it? I just redid my nails in a different shade and love it. The action more than the results I think. I'm sure I would get tired or it after a bit, but GG's don't seem to not do it so....?

Actually, it's interesting at this point. The diet thing is pushing me to stay en femme more than anything else. Putting on a dress over my pettis every morning is starting to feel....normal? I know, I know, that's impossible right? But it's true. I'm even getting less worried about being outside. Maybe I'm getting toooooo comfortable with all this? Still not willing to venture out in public of course. But I'm not worried as much about the snapping of a twig just out of sight, or the occassional car passing by.

Whew....seven days and I'm still not bored enough to want the keys back. How long do you suppose before I get tired of all this?

Thanks for listening to my rambling.

Hope

Kerri · Post by **Kerri** » Mon Nov 08, 2004 5:32 pm

Hi Hope,

My word your a glutton for punishment. How can you stand it being enfemme for so long?

I am interested in this diet your on, can you give me some more details?
I stopped eating bread and wheat products in the summer, I have lost 4 inches off my waist as a result. I now weigh 93 Kg. I would like to loose more but dont know how.

I enjoy applying nail varnish the best, its a good feeling when you get a good result. Does'nt wearing make-up every day irritate your skin?

Live my dream Hope, I'm rooting for you!

hugs

Kerri

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Nov 08, 2004 6:52 pm

I stopped eating bread and wheat products in the summer, I have lost 4 inches off my waist as a result. I now weigh 93 Kg. I would like to loose more but dont know how.

Kerri,

I cut out most bread, but when I eat it it is usually whole grain or whole wheat, sugar free. I've also cut down dramatically on foods with fats, especially dairy. I quit taking seconds also, unless it is fish or chicken, and veggies.

Then on top Lots of exercise. Swim a mile almost every morning, followed by a water power walk for 15 minutes, and at work, climb the stairs to the 11th floor from the third (16 steps between floors). Down from a 28 dress size to a 20/22 with a loss of 36 lbs since Aug. 15.

Hope · Post by **Hope** » Mon Nov 08, 2004 8:14 pm

Wow you two....I'm impressed! I've cut all the carbohydrates basically. The only vegies allowed are green, except peas. No fruits. Lots of protein and lettuce or cabbage and cut green beans etc. It sounds terrible, but honestly, after the first three days, it's fine. It's called ketogenic diet by the way. You can probably get more info on line.

Now, if only I could get some exercise? I'd love to go for long walks but....not ready for public display quite yet.

Finished the eighth day. At this point, I'm sticking with it only to force myself to stay on the diet for a while. I've gotten pretty used to dresses and wearing undergarments (blush) all day. The makeup doesn't seem to cause a problem. It shouldn't....doesn't bother most GG's. And yes, I love the nail varnish/polish. Still sometimes shocks me to see my fingers when I'm not paying attention but other than that, things seem....normal?

I don't know if I can make it the full three weeks yet. My goodness it's like being a 50's housewife stuck in the house all day every day. And on top of that...MY SEWING MACHINE QUIT WORKING!

whine whine

Hope

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Nov 08, 2004 11:45 pm

What would you wear if you decide you can't make it. Aren't the male clothes locked up?

Time to bite the bullet and go out. I reckon you're gonna have to get the Singer fixed if you can't find the problem, like thread wound up around a gear or two. So you'll need to venture out or go stir crazy. Come on girtl, one foot in front of the other and out the door.

Needra · Post by **Needra** » Tue Nov 09, 2004 3:37 am

Hi again - I can't help but say (being a fitness weirdo) at 5' 11" and 250 lbs ---other things to address first-

needra

Hope · Post by **Hope** » Tue Nov 09, 2004 3:20 pm

Needra....Huh? I'm a little dense I guess. I'm not sure what you are saying? Sorry.

Donna,

Yes, they are locked up. However, my DW (after sufficient whining on my part of course) would relent and give me the keys. I think? Hmmmm, now that brings up a very good question doesn't it. Oh dear. Guess it depends on how much will power she think I would have to stick on the diet if I go out huh.

Post by **DonnaT** » Tue Nov 09, 2004 3:30 pm

Well, I for one hope she keeps them locked up. Why? I don't kow, but I think you need it. And I like those kind of stories.

As for will power, just imagine wearing a dress size or two smaller.

Hope · Post by **Hope** » Wed Nov 10, 2004 2:49 pm

Gee...THANKS Donna? She'll be home tomorrow. We'll see then what happens won't we. Been gone four days and...I miss her.

Got the machine working again. Of all things.....bad needle!

Cripes! I checked everything else, then at the last minute stuck a new needle in and...sigh...it works! Now I can at least get one dress done before she gets home.

Hmmm, taking in some seams? Might be a good idea. That might work to keep me on the diet.

Ten days.....whew....11 to go? Oh my

Hope · Post by **Hope** » Mon Nov 15, 2004 12:34 am

Yea! Officially two weeks today!

It actually gets easier as time progresses. I've gotten more comfortable around my DW and have settled into a sort of routine. I thought by now I wouldn't be as aware of having skirts on (getting used to them) but not true. I am aware however, the background fear females must face when left alone for long periods of time? I began to imagine sounds at night. Wondering if some kindly rednecks were opting to teach a crossdresser a lesson. Not reasonable thoughts, but there none-the-less. I wonder if this truly is a parallel to women's thoughts?

One week to go. Can't wait to see if my regular clothes are looser after this three week 'diet'. Still might make a good diet book for a very select audience huh?