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SilverLady(SO)
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Re: Hi im a new member

Post by SilverLady(SO) »

Hi, all -

For the record, "Leslie" is now "Alan" . . . at her/his request the user name was changed today. =D>

Welcome, Alan, we look forward to your participation . . . and that of Bel(SO), too! ..o)..


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Bel(SO)
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Post by Bel(SO) »

Thanks and sorry for confusion! We were utterly confused, this is all new, to us, it's been a secret for years and even I only found out the full truth of how Alan feels 2 weeks ago. He has struggled alone for years feeling like a freak and feeling like he has an illness he needs to get cured and thought he was the only one. Trying to find a place to talk online, he still felt different to the CD norm in feeling male rather than female. We are still trying to come to terms with it all, but most importantly Alan has finally accepted himself, no more shame. It's early days but I know we'll both become more confident in CD lifestyle in time, and forget about how we should be, and just be. Also, I know he does not take any offence at all to being referred to as 'she' by mistake, he totally understands :)

Thank you all again, this really is a journey!
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Alan
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Post by Alan »

Thanks everyone :)
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Carly
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Welcome and no need for guilt here and take care of your SO. She is special.
Carly
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LeeAnn
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Post by LeeAnn »

Welcome Alan. I hope you can take care of the guilt thing. I sort of can understand where you are coming from. It is good that your wife is acceptable to it. You are very lucky to have such a wonderful wife and I hope the best for both of you.
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Rikki
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Welcome to our club, Alan!

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Carol Esme
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Welcome Alan. There's nothing like a fresh start.
Carol
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Latanya
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Post by Latanya »

although i said hello before
hello alan and welcome to the forum and please call me Anya all my friends do!
The fem side of me is ever evolving and growing.
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Hello -wel- :) 8)
Lucy xx
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Anna
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Hello again, and -wel- again to Alan!
Anna x

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