If you were given the chance to become a woman- would you?

Paula · Post by **Paula** » Sun Oct 24, 2004 7:26 pm

I'd have to say yes. I am 47, that means that I have lived more than half of my life as a male. I'd go for the pill and live the outher half of my life as a female and a good looking one at that. where do I get these pills?

Rachel Ann · Post by **Rachel Ann** » Sun Oct 24, 2004 9:58 pm

In boy mode I recently posted elsewhere: now that bisexuality in women is trendy, I no longer just have all the *men* to compete with!

btw Beauty, love your new av - great gams!

Sarah · Post by **Sarah** » Mon Oct 25, 2004 1:22 pm

Yes, in a New York second!!

Phylis Anne · Post by **Phylis Anne** » Mon Oct 25, 2004 1:32 pm

YESSS if i had the chance i would be first on the line.as we all probably have had dreams about waking up and finding ones self transformed into a woman,this is a dream i sometimes have .since coming out and really wearing my MY girls clothing these dreams do happen .well my answer is if i had the chance yes i would take it .all my love phylis anne

Merinda · Post by **Merinda** » Tue Oct 26, 2004 3:19 pm

Darlene wrote:Well that sure doesn't sound as though you are joking Merinda.
Sounds like you have had a hard life.

Thanks Darlene ,

Although I'm long since married with childeren , that rant was a very quick summary of my life in early adulthood and it still hurts to think about it.

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Thu Oct 28, 2004 5:21 am

Rachel Ann wrote:In boy mode I recently posted elsewhere: now that bisexuality in women is trendy, I no longer just have all the *men* to compete with!

btw Beauty, love your new av - great gams!

LOL!

I never thought about that.

and thanks for the compliments on the avatar.

Beauty

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Thu Oct 28, 2004 5:22 am

Merinda Widget wrote:I've thought hard about this thread before answering ,

I think the 3 month probation pill is the best option , if after that time you decide you dont like being a woman you revert back to your male form.

I think a pill to transform women into men is also a good idea , so that they can find out what it feels like to be " TOTALLY REJECTED" by the opposite sex.

Darn it. Sorry I missed the post above when creating the new thread Merinda and Darlene.

I started a new thread about this topic, since Candice's thread was about taking a pill to change to a woman.

Here's the link to the new thread.

http://crossdressers-haven.com/forums/v ... php?t=2939

Beauty

LaurenD · Post by **LaurenD** » Fri Oct 29, 2004 12:14 am

I think I would take that pill, especially if there was a way to reverse the effect if I decided that being a woman wasn't the right thing for me. I barely pass now and if the pill made me more attractive to others then I would feel comfortable in taking it.

Sandi · Post by **Sandi** » Mon Nov 01, 2004 3:45 pm

i think as to the way i feel right now , iwould have to say yes in a second.

is where i would be.

PaulaK · Post by **PaulaK** » Mon Nov 08, 2004 7:21 am

No.

Shouldn't this be a Poll question? It might be interesting.

Rachel Ann wrote: btw Beauty, love your new av - great gams!

I agree! Great legs there Beauty.

RikkiOfLA · Post by **RikkiOfLA** » Wed Nov 24, 2004 7:15 am

I have lived full time for over five years now. And I love it!

But would I want surgery? I don't think so. Three big reasons:

1. It would mean the end of my relationship with my wife, whom I love with all my heart. She means more to me than anything else on earth. She accepts me as I am, but she has made it clear there are limits beyond which I can not go. Every step I have taken in this direction (of discovering and being who I am) has been with her permission (not behind her back). Her trust and acceptance are very, very important to me.

2. I will never have those memories "of when I was a little girl." Women get to talking about that (just like men do about when they were boys). And when my women friends have those discussions, I have to just listen. I don't remember my first menstruation. No boy ever took me to the prom. I don't remember my first heels (oh, ok, I do, I was in my 40s), or my first nylons (I was 17), or having a frilly party dress or selling girl scout cookies. I was never a little girl; I was a little boy who often dreamed of being a little girl, but that's not at all the same thing.

3. I have lots of friends who are transsexual, including some who are post op. Many of them have boyfriends, fiances, or husbands. The surprising thing is that almost all of them met these men before they had their surgery. The ones who had surgery on their own are still on their own, or they're in relationships with other trannies. Straight men do not want transsexuals--they want genetic women, and past age 40, they have no trouble finding them. Women outlive men, and so it really does become "two girls for every boy" like the old song puts it. (Of course, they're hardly boys and girls anymore, giggle.) The man who will help a transsexual pay for her surgery, stay with her, and marry her is a remarkable (and rare) man. Most of them that I know are crossdressers who have socialized with transsexuals, and so they know what their women have gone through. They also became friends first, and the friendship blossomed into love.

To me, a sex organ is just a plug. It's handy that it fits, but what is truly exciting about it isn't the fit, it's the charge that the two people get when they're connected. The plug that I have now fits well with my wife's, so I'm content to keep it as it is. I have no idea what I'd do if she passed away. I have met plenty of interesting people who I imagine I could easily fall in love with. I'm bisexual, so the list includes women, men, transsexuals in both directions, and other crossdressers. What matters more to me than their gender is that they are genuinely nice, caring people, and that we share the most important values. I'm sure I'd fall in love again, as would my wife (if I died first). I'd keep or get the plumbing that my new sweetie enjoyed the most. Either way, I'd continue to be comfortable to be the person I am. I'm female but have a strong male side.

After a lifetime of doubt, depression, and soul-searching to find out who I am, it's awfully nice to come home to being truly myself and I'm loving it!

Anasia · Post by **Anasia** » Wed Nov 24, 2004 12:48 pm

Yes! as long as I knew I would be accepted by my wife and son.

p.s. posting after Rikki is like going on stage after the best band in the world at a talent competition.

lol
Anasia

Julie · Post by **Julie** » Thu Nov 25, 2004 5:21 am

no! dressing wouldn't seem as special (just ask most women)

Violet · Post by **Violet** » Thu Nov 25, 2004 10:41 am

I'd have to say *no* to the perma-sex change pill. What if I didn't like it? That 24-hour pill might be a lot of fun though. I'd keep a bottle of them on my night table.

Beautiful_Gal · Post by **Beautiful_Gal** » Sat Nov 27, 2004 1:55 am

I would really really really want too but I know that I am too young to make that decision.

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