If you were given the chance to become a woman- would you?

Daniel · Post by **Daniel** » Sat May 28, 2005 8:46 pm

For life? No. It would HAVE to be temporary. I do NOT consider myself gender dysphoric - rather, I like my home on Mars, but also like to visit Venus from time to time. And I need reliable transportation to get back to Mars when I need to...

Eien · Post by **Eien** » Fri Jun 03, 2005 3:17 pm

Harmony wrote: I would be totaly lost as a real woman.

I think I agree here, except that I already do feel totally lost being a man. I'd be trading one set of discomfots and uneasinesses for another, with no real clue if it would actually make me feel any more comfortable with being who I am, so in terms of reality that's not enough to make me do anything about it. And I'm still young after all.

In terms of this wonder pill I'd take a temporary one in a heartbeat. As for a permanent one I thing there's a good chance I would, if only to find out for sure without all the pain (both social and physical over 3+ years) that comes with reality's version, but I'd take an age to make up my mind, and I'd want to make sure my family was okay with it, or at least understood.

LaDonna · Post by **LaDonna** » Fri Jun 17, 2005 6:06 am

I don't believe GG's appreciate what a beautiful and strong creature a woman is. Therefore, my answer will have to be no. I never want to lose
my admiration for the female body, and the female mind.
I like being me, the things I have done, and can do, as a man. And I like being LaDonna, and the fun she has being a woman.

Phylis Anne · Post by **Phylis Anne** » Fri Jun 17, 2005 12:14 pm

well as i have said if i was about 40 years younger and not married i would probably have srs and start all over as a woman.but be as it may we are all stuck in our birth bodies and like me doing the next best thing and dressing as much as i can and enjoying it all ....all my love phylis anne

Lynn · Post by **Lynn** » Tue Jun 21, 2005 6:16 am

Hi Girls, Well I haven't been here in awhile but,I'll have just throw my 2 cents worth in and say, WithOut A Doubt YES,YES,YES, I"d Definitiely, I'd Become That GIRL I ALWAYS WANTED TO BE .......................Hugs Girls, Lynn

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Tue Jun 21, 2005 6:47 am

Hi Lynn,

Welcome back!!!!!

Beauty

Ms Jane · Post by **Ms Jane** » Wed Jun 22, 2005 4:26 pm

I don't think that any male could know enough about being female to enable them to make the decision and I would think the reverse would be the same. I love wearing dresses and lingerie but that doesn't give me an insight into being female any more than wearing a space suit would make me an astronaut.
I don't think I would be able to endure menstruation or childbirth. Also, disgracefully, women have a higher risk of sexual and physical abuse. From a male standpoint I can appreciate the female form and clothing more than if I were a woman. I enjoy my male side too much to wish to be female permanently. However like others here I would like the occasional switch to female for the experience and insight along with the bonus that the clothes would fit much better. Jane.

Lynne · Post by **Lynne** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 10:11 pm

Hi Girls
DonnaT makes the point for me. Nope. My relationship with my wife is much too important.
Lynne

Danette · Post by **Danette** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 2:02 am

Hi All,

Where do I sign up! I'm willing to start a new live. Not that have'nt already.

Thanks Ladies,

XOXOXO,
Danette

Darth_Wolfenbarg · Post by **Darth_Wolfenbarg** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 2:29 am

Not a difficult choice at all for me. That is a serious no. I wouldn't fit as a woman, I can walk can talk like a woman, but once I open my mouth you see that I'm just a guy. That is who I am.

I would be lost as a girl too. I have worked insanely hard as I am now. I pretty much pour my life into my school's drill team. I work hard, do push ups and come to every practice so I can go to events and impress pretty girls by doing insane tricks, spins and throws with a heavy weapon. Would I enjoy that as a girl? Not at all. I wouldn't even be on such a team as a girl. I am a guy by nature, but I love to CD. Doing it every day would also take away that great feeling you get.

And this pill wouldn't make me think differently either, I have the brain I grew up with. To give me a new set of thinking is to go back and change me since birth. I can think like a woman, but I am thinking like a woman as a man if you get me. I only do that to understand and add to my experience as a guy. Even if I took that pill I'd only be a girl in body.

Dressing isn't any fun or thrilling if I was a woman and do it freely. Suspence is lost!

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 12:42 pm

Hi Erica,

Welcome to the forum.

You are a very lovely gal!

Nice avatar!

Beauty

Pauline · Post by **Pauline** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:50 pm

Hi Ladies

"With every action there is an equal and opposite reaction"

I have had a while to think about this one.

Consequences
What would happen to your relationships -?
A. you were married
B. you had a child/children

Before any situation like this... you would have to think deeply of if you really wanted to because once you took the pill, everything would change as you would be the only one who did the change... Marriage is, once entered is a statement to the world that you love your partners with all your hearts and stating that you are going to be together for the rest of your lives, so by taking that pill, you are changing that contract.. And lets face it... it is a contract not only a piece of paper but a binding of two hearts into one.

What would be the reactions from the child or children, family, friends, co-workers, how would you explain who you were and where you arrived from, how you had no legal documents to prove who you were. As a single individual. Then no not a lot problem other than whats been stated about the leagal papers. Then the problems that are associated with being female... hormones, periods, some of the male populaton lol.

Now I haven’t lost the conception that this is only a fantasy but all the angles would have to be thought through even with of the taking of a single pill matrix style.

But to get to my answer.. yes if single.. which i am not...... but i would hold onto that pill incase that situation became beyond my control in the sense of the relationship became un-repairable then perhaps if the taking of the pill.. the relationship could be better as a female.. ooh there is still much to think about..lol

Pauline

Michelle · Post by **Michelle** » Wed Aug 31, 2005 5:17 pm

No way!
I love women, but I'm very happy as a man, who dresses as a woman. I have no desire to become one myself. I suppose this sounds selfish, but I like having the best of both worlds.

As a man, I can work on cars do, 'boy' things when I want to, and enjoy the feeling of security men get in our society. I can enjoy the finer, 'delicate' things while crossdressed as well.
Vey importantly, I wouldn't want to lose my "manhood".

But as others have said, If I could cross over and back at will, then yes,yes, yes.

Darla · Post by **Darla** » Fri Sep 02, 2005 11:04 am

I may still be finding out about myself but i know i don't want to be a woman

Phylis Anne · Post by **Phylis Anne** » Fri Sep 02, 2005 11:21 am

well this topic always comes up among ourselves.i have already posted my comments buy as we at cdi this past wed night this topic i will add a few more lines to the subject.as one girl said this is all science fiction but in a few years you never know what could happen in this crazy world .someone could actually produce something which will alter our bodies to change our sex.now this wont be like alice and wonderland where tou will take one thing to be a girl and another to change back when you get tired of your female new self.once you take the new wonder whatever it is you will be a woman for the rest of your life.so ladies every one of us would have to look real hard at the consequences of changing sexes.i for one if i wasnt married and a whole lot younger would take it .but this is all a lot way off for a lot of us so i will just enjoy being a crossdresser and enjoying life as it comes.huggs to all of you phylisanne

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