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Christine.Lolita
- Miss Crystal Goddess
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Hello and Happy to be Here
Hello Everyone,
I wanted to introduce myself. I am Christine, although I use to be known as Chrissie. I prefer Christine as it is the name I choose for myself.
Like most of us I felt that I was different when growing up and never really understood the feelings I had so I suppressed it for a long time. I was well into my thirties before I started experimenting with CDing.
I am mid-forties now and am still getting to know Christine, right now I have a love of Lolita fashions and actually it is the only style of clothes I like to wear. I think this is because it really suits my body shape in that the petticoats provide a much more feminine figure. Also I just love the way the dresses look.
My wife is aware of Christine and has met her once. This was a planned meeting, so there was not any drama, although there has been drama before. It took many years for her to face the fact that I am a gender variant person. Well I cannot blame her for that because I tried very hard not to accept it either. As all of here know we do not have a choice about who we are and how we feel. As I discovered we do have a choice how we deal with it.
At this time in my life I am choosing to be who I am, yet still consider the feelings of those who I am closest. To that point I mean except for my wife I choose to keep Christine secret from my other family and friends. Really, there is no need for them to know. If that changes than I will be happy to explain it.
I would like to say I look forward to meeting new friends and I am happy to be here.
All the best,
Christine
I wanted to introduce myself. I am Christine, although I use to be known as Chrissie. I prefer Christine as it is the name I choose for myself.
Like most of us I felt that I was different when growing up and never really understood the feelings I had so I suppressed it for a long time. I was well into my thirties before I started experimenting with CDing.
I am mid-forties now and am still getting to know Christine, right now I have a love of Lolita fashions and actually it is the only style of clothes I like to wear. I think this is because it really suits my body shape in that the petticoats provide a much more feminine figure. Also I just love the way the dresses look.
My wife is aware of Christine and has met her once. This was a planned meeting, so there was not any drama, although there has been drama before. It took many years for her to face the fact that I am a gender variant person. Well I cannot blame her for that because I tried very hard not to accept it either. As all of here know we do not have a choice about who we are and how we feel. As I discovered we do have a choice how we deal with it.
At this time in my life I am choosing to be who I am, yet still consider the feelings of those who I am closest. To that point I mean except for my wife I choose to keep Christine secret from my other family and friends. Really, there is no need for them to know. If that changes than I will be happy to explain it.
I would like to say I look forward to meeting new friends and I am happy to be here.
All the best,
Christine
- Karin
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Re: Hello and Happy to be Here
Hi Christine,
to the forum, It's lovely to meet you!
There's no need to tell anyone else unless you want to is there? Comfortable is always best. I look forward to chatting with you xx
There's no need to tell anyone else unless you want to is there? Comfortable is always best. I look forward to chatting with you xx
"It's Kind Of Fun To Do The Impossible" 
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Carla Michelle
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Re: Hello and Happy to be Here
This is a great place. Gender variant people are the colors of the rainbow and every shade in between.
Gender variant, I like that term.
~Carla Michelle a.k.a. Mickey~
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Anthony Simon
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Re: Hello everyone
Welcome, Christine.
Socrates: The highest wisdom is to know that you know nothing.
Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
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SilverLady(SO)
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Re: Hello everyone
Hi, Christine, and welcome to the forum!
FYI: Your duplicate topics from Your Beginnings ("Hello and Happy to be Here" 07/25/13 @ 10:41p) and New Members ("Hello Everyone" 07/26/13 @ 12:16a) have been merged into this one topic in the New Members section, and your duplicate post has been deleted, although all comments have been retained in this topic.
Also, all 15 of your photos have been deleted for several reasons, please read your Account Activation email regarding our rules for the photo gallery.
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FYI: Your duplicate topics from Your Beginnings ("Hello and Happy to be Here" 07/25/13 @ 10:41p) and New Members ("Hello Everyone" 07/26/13 @ 12:16a) have been merged into this one topic in the New Members section, and your duplicate post has been deleted, although all comments have been retained in this topic.
Also, all 15 of your photos have been deleted for several reasons, please read your Account Activation email regarding our rules for the photo gallery.
- SL
SilverLady(SO)
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Nicole Rose
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Re: Hello everyone
Hi Christine,
to the forum. I'm from sask, about 180 kms from Saskatoon, nice to see some other girls from western Canada here. Love your pic very pretty petticoat. I am into the Bettie paige dresses and blouses, skirts etc. Hope to chat with you in the chatroom, I've been dressing for the last 25 years still closted but I wouldn't change a thing, crossdressing has made me a better person in both personas. Hope to chat in the future
Nicole
- Carly
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Re: Hello everyone
Welcome Christine,
Nothing wrong in keeping the circle of those who meet Christine at your comfort level.
Nothing wrong in keeping the circle of those who meet Christine at your comfort level.
Carly
- Rikki
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Re: Hello everyone
Christine,
So great to see you here!! Pouf-on, my petti-friend.
Rikki
So great to see you here!! Pouf-on, my petti-friend.
Rikki
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