Hello all: Well, the easy thing to say is that I cut back on "cursing" when I'm "dressed." Perhaps that's because I don't want to be noticed doing that-- or-- it just doesn't feel right. I also try to come across not as curmudgeonly as I usually am.
I have asked people who've seen me both ways, and wish I could remember all of the answers.
One person did say I seemed "happier" when "dressed."
"Hippie Cheerleader" has become a minor icon in the Washington, D.C. area, so I do make a conscious effort to be pleasant when in that role.
The only other thing I can think of to say is that "dressing" does relax me, and it is like a "natural high."
Better as a CDer? Could be...
There are people who've known me a long time and seen both "boy" and "girl" sides. Another question I've asked is do they think I've changed over all since I began "dressing." Unfortunately, I can't remember the answers to that. Oh, well...
Hope this posting wasn't too garbled...
Peace-- Kendra Lynn ("hippie cheerleader").