Hi I'm donnaS.

[DonnaS]

Hi everyone. Thanks for all the response. It
Has been a good week. Wife's birthday was Tuesday.
She even let me dress before bed, I have an awesome wife.
I have been shaving more. Legs,under arms and bikini area.
Bumps are irritating, but the smooth feminine feeling is worth it.
So excited and happy. I love this feeling. Thanks so much girls.

[Martina H.]

Hi Donna,

[Amanda M]

A big WELCOME Donna. Hope you have fun here.

[PhylissH]

Hi Donna,
Glad you found us and glad to hear the wife is supportive. Is she a member here also?
Passing is such a terrible term Its about presentation. Present as a woman act as a woman and be confident and people will be more accepting. Your wife will be able to help you with a lot of things such as make up and how to walk as a female and just in heels. Next time you go out some where take time watch the difference in the way men and women walk. As for voice control I recommend Kathy Perez. I have been to several of her seminars and have one of her CD's. She also does online seminars.

[Latanya]

hi donna s
and welcome to the site
i am latanya but call me anya
enjoy!

[DonnaS]

Thanks so much for the response girls. My wife
Is awesome. I think she gets a little upset, that
I am here with y'all. I think she feels I can't talk to her.
That's not true. But she is genetic, do they truly understand
How we feel? I want to know how other cd
Girls cope ,their feelings and why we are who we are.
I know there are plenty of topics on this.
Gosh, I feel so open inside when femmed out. All my guards
Are let down. Emotions running high. So,so awesome. I am woman,
Hear me roar. Haha.
But my wife is so awesome.

[Latanya]

u found the right place
but it is great that ur SO understands

[Dixie (SO)]

Hello DonnaS, I have read your post and am wondering how your wife deals with it. She is ok with all of this? I am having a hard time with it. Your wife was ok with you dressing up on her birthday? My husband would rather dress up than be with me and it has got to the point he does not even ask anymore. Do you to have an understanding or agreement when you can? Thsnks

[DonnaS]

Hi dixie,
I asked her last night abour her feelings. I would rather
Be with my wife than anything else. she has always
Told me if she needed her man, she would let me know.
crossdressers do not know why they are this way.
Unfortunatly, I have found out that a woman needs,
The security and comfort of a man. I understand that
Wrapping your arms around her as she sleeps and
Being a strong hand for support is my job.
As for now, I guess its back to the closet. she has
Told me she loves me very much and will accept all
Parts of my life. I will find some other way to cope
With this. Finding a wife or genetic woman that will
Accept,enjoy and participate with the husband as a cd is
Very rare. I had that I thought. Thank you for asking the question.
I would not want someone to be miserable in a relationship.
I can also check out crossdresser heaven, there is information there,
That explains how much a relationship can benefit from letting the cd
Person come out of the closet and envelope thier female side.
As for me?i will box everything up again,play my role as a man should.
Life will go on. Happines is not always meant to be. Society keeps us from that.
I do thank all the girls for the support given here on this forum, ya'll are so awesome.
Love, Donna
There that explains how

[DonnaS]

Hi girls,
My last reply was to Dixie. My wife went on the
Forum and read what I had said. WOW!
I came home that day from work, To my surprise
She said I bought something for you. I'm thinking
Some kinda of sweets, I love sweets. Omg it was a new
Dress. Screech! I was so excited. I did not wear it that night.
Still unsure of her feelings. That is so important to me.
My feelings get hurt so easily. But I don't tell her that.
My fem side makes me so sensitive sometimes. Men are
Supposed to be hard, in unbreakable. My heart is so excited,
I hope she is not doing this as not to lose me. I love her much.
I find it funny how much I look up to her learning how to be femme.
We are taking it slow. She is such an awesome person. She also
Told me she read the replies from ya"ll to dixie. She had set some guidelines
I can definantly live by. Thanks for all the positive replies. Life is so good, can't
Wait for what's in store.

[Cassandra Lynn]

Congrats Donna and welcome to the forum, here's to hoping for continued support and acceptance.