A Newbie Hello!

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Rachel A.
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A Newbie Hello!

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I'm new to cd-haven and also to "real" cross-dressing. Since I was a teen (50 years ago!), when alone I would "borrow" my mother's clothes and then my wife's. My wife knew my interest but it was occasional and not obtrusive. Now, though, I am expressing my feminine side more fully. A year ago I started wearing panties all the time and a nighty to bed. (Oooh, does that feel goooood!!!) My wife was OK with that. I moved on to painted toe nails, which my wife was OK with as long as I wore socks or slippers inside and my toes were not exposed outside. Now, I have started my own wardrobe. I want to come out. My wife is struggling with this, understandably. I am en femme now as she is out with a friend. I'm not really looking for advice, more to vent, as my wife's and my different perspectives on CDing is the big issue. i suspect I am not alone, nor is she.
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Anita
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Re: A Newbie Hello!

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Hello, Rachel--
Welcome to the board. There is a lot of info here on couples dealing with this, as well as support for your spouse, if she wants to use it.
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SilverLady(SO)
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Hi, Rachel, and welcome to the Haven! ..o)..

Ditto what Anita said . . . your wife (SO) is welcome and encouraged to join for support, too. :yes:


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Leeza
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Hi Rachel -wel-
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Kelly
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Hi Rachel,

Welcome. Glad you have joined up. Vent all you want, I have and it helps.

Kelly.
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Carol Esme
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Hello and welcome Rachel.
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Requal Jo
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Hi Rachel. Welcome to this happy and friendly Haven of wonderful people. I can understand your wife's concerns as will my wife is accepting of Requal, she still remains somewhat apprehensive.
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Robyn
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Hi Rachel,

I'm new here as well, and I've found that it's a very comfortable place to start letting myself open up :)
Normal, just not average,
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TiffanyAnne_Williams
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Hello and welcome!
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Nicole Rose
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Post by Nicole Rose »

Hi Rachel, -wel- to the haven, lots of help here for you and your wife. Hope you find some answers here, their are lots og great girls to help you. (--)
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Martha G
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Hi there Rachel!

Welcome! :)
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Domonique
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Hi Rachel, -wel- to the Haven.
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Cynthia Sloan
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Hi Rachel!! Welcome and good luck!!
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DonnaT
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Re: A Newbie Hello!

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Hi Rachel, -wel- aboard.
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Carly
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Welcome Rachel,
Be happy your wife is as accepting as she is. Baby steps and don't push her. What I would give to have the amount of acceptance you already have.
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