New to the site and dressing
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Judie
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New to the site and dressing
Hi all,
New to the site and wanted to introduce myself, i am judy and have only recently started dressing.
i was not fully aware of what i wanted till recently always had an obsession with lingerie but as a straight man who hasn't. I started to realise i wanted to wear them as well and after much thought decided to tell my wife. I did think about hiding it but decided if she found any of my things there was no way i would convince her they were mine she would be convinced i was playing away.
I am ashamed to say i took the cowards way out and text her. the first response was "if thats what makes you happy" she had several questions to ask about why just underwear and promptly told me it would not stop there. she was right it didn't stop at underwear and she also told me one of our friends dresses as well. She helped teach him how to do his make up and nails. So i also got bit of a surprise and a bonus as he is my size and gave me several gifts to help build up my wardrobe.
Since then the only time i got in trouble from the SO was when she realised 3 bin bags full of clothes we gave to charity shops in the summer would have fit me. She has also made me buy her an expensive sewing machine so she could start making things for me i now have 2 50's style skirts and a tight mini skirt she has made to add to my ever growing wardrobe.
4 months have passed and my SO has taught me make up and nails and complains if she doesn't see me in some fancy panties at least once a week.
Sorry if i have rambled on was not sure how to say hi so just kept typing hope everyone is ok.
Judy x
New to the site and wanted to introduce myself, i am judy and have only recently started dressing.
i was not fully aware of what i wanted till recently always had an obsession with lingerie but as a straight man who hasn't. I started to realise i wanted to wear them as well and after much thought decided to tell my wife. I did think about hiding it but decided if she found any of my things there was no way i would convince her they were mine she would be convinced i was playing away.
I am ashamed to say i took the cowards way out and text her. the first response was "if thats what makes you happy" she had several questions to ask about why just underwear and promptly told me it would not stop there. she was right it didn't stop at underwear and she also told me one of our friends dresses as well. She helped teach him how to do his make up and nails. So i also got bit of a surprise and a bonus as he is my size and gave me several gifts to help build up my wardrobe.
Since then the only time i got in trouble from the SO was when she realised 3 bin bags full of clothes we gave to charity shops in the summer would have fit me. She has also made me buy her an expensive sewing machine so she could start making things for me i now have 2 50's style skirts and a tight mini skirt she has made to add to my ever growing wardrobe.
4 months have passed and my SO has taught me make up and nails and complains if she doesn't see me in some fancy panties at least once a week.
Sorry if i have rambled on was not sure how to say hi so just kept typing hope everyone is ok.
Judy x
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Nicole Rose
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Re: New to the site and dressing
hi Judie,
to the haven, so nice your wife is so understanding. Lots of great girls so don't be shy and join in. Chatroom is a great place to get to know us , tc
nicole
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Anthony Simon
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Re: New to the site and dressing
Welcome, Judie.
Socrates: The highest wisdom is to know that you know nothing.
Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
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Re: New to the site and dressing
Judie and your wife we welcome you to our site. Have you wife get an ID also if she want to join in.
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joe in a skirt
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joe in a skirt
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I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
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SilverLady(SO)
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Re: New to the site and dressing
Hi, Judie, and welcome to the Haven!
Yes, your wife (SO) is welcome to join our cyber family, too! http://crossdressers-haven.com/forums/v ... 65&t=15981" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
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Yes, your wife (SO) is welcome to join our cyber family, too! http://crossdressers-haven.com/forums/v ... 65&t=15981" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
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Re: New to the site and dressing
Hello Judie,
Sounds like we have two things in common, a desire to dress and wonderfully supportive wives. I recently came out. This site and it's members are a huge support group and I love it here. Have a look around and join in the fun.

Sounds like we have two things in common, a desire to dress and wonderfully supportive wives. I recently came out. This site and it's members are a huge support group and I love it here. Have a look around and join in the fun.
One wears a mask for so long you forget who you are beneath it......I've now removed my mask.
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Re: New to the site and dressing
Welcome to the Haven, Judie!
All the best to you and your lovely wife.
Rikki
All the best to you and your lovely wife.
Rikki
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Requal Jo
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Re: New to the site and dressing
Hi Judy and welcome to this friendly and supportive Haven. It is great that you came "clean" with your wife at the beginning. It makes our dressing so much more enjoyable when our SO is on side.
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Re: New to the site and dressing
Hi Judy and welcome to this forum of friendly girls!
I AM NOW A WOMAN- I FOUND MYSELF
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PaigeK
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Re: New to the site and dressing
Welcome, Judie! I have gained so much confidence from this group already. You're off on the right foot here. The best thing you can do is to do you!
"Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else." - Judy Garland