Just want to say hello
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Shelby
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Just want to say hello
I have always been fascinated with women's clothes, shoes and make-up from a very young age. This created some serious confusion for me as I thought, if I fantasized about such things, I must be gay (which I am not).
Nevertheless, I used to sneak into my Mom's make-up and play around when she wasn't home.
When I started dating my wife she used to out her bra or lip gloss on me just fooling around; she had no idea how much that turned me on............well I guess the bulge in my pants might have been a dead give away..........lol.
Fast forward 25+ years and we're married for 26 years. After seeing a well known Broadway show which features some very sexy shoes, we were very surprised to find that 90% of the "women" on stage were actually men. She teased me and said she was going to buy me a pair of shoes..........time went buy and no shoes. So, I took matters into my own hands and found a site that sells some wonderful shoes (onlymaker). I bought her a pair and, after receiving them she said I should buy myself a pair (which I did).
Since that time I have shared with her that I would like to explore crossdressing as it is something I have always kept to myself. Even she didn't know about it until last year and we've been married for 26 years. Anyway, she is completely supportive; in fact I think it kind of turns her on too.
I have no desire to venture outside dressed as a woman since I have no delusions of thinking I could ever pass as a woman. You see, I am 5'10, 195lbs. and spend a fair amount of time working out; not the ideal physique for that type of thing.
Anyway, I've rambled on long enough; I am grateful to have found this site and hope to learn about this thing that I have kept to myself for so long.
Nevertheless, I used to sneak into my Mom's make-up and play around when she wasn't home.
When I started dating my wife she used to out her bra or lip gloss on me just fooling around; she had no idea how much that turned me on............well I guess the bulge in my pants might have been a dead give away..........lol.
Fast forward 25+ years and we're married for 26 years. After seeing a well known Broadway show which features some very sexy shoes, we were very surprised to find that 90% of the "women" on stage were actually men. She teased me and said she was going to buy me a pair of shoes..........time went buy and no shoes. So, I took matters into my own hands and found a site that sells some wonderful shoes (onlymaker). I bought her a pair and, after receiving them she said I should buy myself a pair (which I did).
Since that time I have shared with her that I would like to explore crossdressing as it is something I have always kept to myself. Even she didn't know about it until last year and we've been married for 26 years. Anyway, she is completely supportive; in fact I think it kind of turns her on too.
I have no desire to venture outside dressed as a woman since I have no delusions of thinking I could ever pass as a woman. You see, I am 5'10, 195lbs. and spend a fair amount of time working out; not the ideal physique for that type of thing.
Anyway, I've rambled on long enough; I am grateful to have found this site and hope to learn about this thing that I have kept to myself for so long.
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SilverLady(SO)
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Re: Just want to say hello
Hi, Keay, and welcome to the Haven!
Your wife ('SO') is also welcome to join the Haven.
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Your wife ('SO') is also welcome to join the Haven.
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Anthony Simon
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Re: Just want to say hello
Welcome, Keay.
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Bill and Ted: That's us, dude.
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Linda LaTouche (SO)
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Re: Just want to say hello
Hi Keay...
You have stumbled upon a great place to put forth your thoughts n questions. Please invite your spouse to join so she can share her thought n questions as well.
Welcome to this wonderful Haven for both of you!!
Linda
You have stumbled upon a great place to put forth your thoughts n questions. Please invite your spouse to join so she can share her thought n questions as well.
Welcome to this wonderful Haven for both of you!!
Linda
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Re: Just want to say hello
Keay welcome to the site.
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I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
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Requal Jo
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Re: Just want to say hello
Hi Keay and welcome to this friendly and supportive Haven. It is great news to hear that your wife is supportive of your dressing as it make life so much more enjoyable.
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Eileen (SO)
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Re: Just want to say hello
Welcome here Keay! Another supportive spouse, you're very lucky.
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Samantha
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Re: Just want to say hello
Welcome to Haven Heaven!