Its been a long journey....

Jade (SO) · Post by **Jade (SO)** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 11:53 pm

First, let me state that I am in a long term relationship with a crossdresser. I have been with him since I was 15, making it to almost 7 years now.
We have had a long journey, and I may post a lot of it at another time, because this is just an introduction ^_^ .
Either way, I have been aware of his crossdressing pretty much since we started dating, and now that we are going almost 7 years with this painful, and long process, I am becoming tired, and running out of ideas.
I came across this forum, with the intent to learn from everyone, learn everything I can, and hopefully make some friends along the way.
I am honestly, very happy I have found this site. From what I have read, the people are amazing, and always willing to help. And thats what I need right now...

Soooo, I guess, I will give you a few basics about me. Nothing too big.

My name is Jade
I was born a female
I believe in the ability to love anyone, no matter their gender, or what they wear, or the color of their skin. However, I don't consider myself bisexual, or straight, or homosexual. I guess...I just, am who I am.
I am 22 years of age
I am from New Hampshire.

Well, I guess thats about it. I thank you for giving me the chance to voice the previous, and to be able to become a part of this beautiful community.

Anita · Post by **Anita** » Sun Mar 16, 2008 3:08 am

Hi Jade--
Welcome to the forum. I would hope that you can pick up some new inspiration here, after a "painful, and long process," in your own words. There are spouses and partners telling their own stories on here. As a member, you'll be able to join the closed forums that are for partners of crossdressers only.

The moderators can help you to place the initials "(SO)" after your username. That shows that you are the partner or spouse of a crossdresser. ("significant other")

CJ · Post by CJ » Sun Mar 16, 2008 8:16 am

Hi Jade,

Welcome to the forum.

I think you'll find a variety and richness of viewpoints here. Please feel free to participate in whatever area of the forum you chose. Like Anita said, you should first ask SliverLady or GalicianGirl (the two forum administrators--both GG's) for access to SO-only areas.

I hope you enjoy the time you spend here and I look forward to hearing more from you.

CJ

Lori A · Post by **Lori A** » Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:27 am

It is always a pleasure to welcome another GG to a forum for wanna be's. Not all GG's will even consider talk with us about our wanting to wear the same clothes and accessories as they do and I am always looking for tips and tricks to make my femme self look the part better

Kay · Post by **Kay** » Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:43 am

Hi Jade
Welcome to this wonderful forum from me over the water

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It's a pleasure to have you here.
Kay

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Sun Mar 16, 2008 10:42 am

Hi Jade,

Welcome to our sorority! I love your attitude in that you are just who you are! If more people would have that attitude and understand that we are all just who we are and allow "us" to be who we are, it would be wonderful.

I hope you will join in and share with us. By the way, I have been to New Hampshire on numerous times and it is really a beautiful state.

Love,

Virginia

Jade (SO) · Post by **Jade (SO)** » Sun Mar 16, 2008 1:03 pm

Hello Anita <3 - Thank you so much for the warm welcome. I have indeed talked to someone about that, so soon I will get that changed *nods*

Hello CJ! - Thank you so much! I am sure I will have no problem enjoying and learning here!

Hello Lori! - Isn't it a shame? I know that my relationship grew stronger, because we talk about it all the time. [[and we get to do all the fun girl stuff!]] I feel it is very important that he expresses himself, and he needs the support. And in all honesty, I just LOVE talking to CD's. I can imagine, despite the painful process people go through, it must be a hell of a good fun to dress in women's clothes. 'Cause lets face it, women do have some really sexy clothes! And honestly, I would take a pair of silky panties over boxers any day >.<

Hello Kay! - Thank you so much for the welcome! It means a great deal to me <3

Hello Virginia! - Thank you so much! I wish more people were like that too. If people stopped living the lives society brainwashes them into having, things would be a lot easier. Some people don't stop to realize that behind the exterior, behind the makeup and wigs and piles of shoes and underwear, is a human being, who can feel love, pain, and all other human emotions, just like they can. And I think that because they either, don't care to realize it, or they are ignorant to the fact, they treat some CD's as if they were lower forms of life. But I say, Be who you want to be! Never hold back, and always do what you do best! Whether anyone likes it, or hates it. Do it for you! <3

SilverLady(SO) · Post by **SilverLady(SO)** » Sun Mar 16, 2008 6:44 pm

Hi, Jade, and welcome to the Forum . . . we're looking forward to your participation!

Thanks for getting in touch with me Saturday evening about your name change, and as I mentioned to you I have also given you access to the GG-only section.

*Hugs*

- SL

Stephanie W · Post by **Stephanie W** » Sun Mar 16, 2008 7:48 pm

Hi Jade and a big

to the forum. I'm sure you'll find plenty of new ideas now that you've joined us here. I hope you can encourage your partner to participate when he's ready, as that should help you both.

I just LOVE talking to CD's. I can imagine, despite the painful process people go through, it must be a hell of a good fun to dress in women's clothes. 'Cause lets face it, women do have some really sexy clothes! And honestly, I would take a pair of silky panties over boxers any day >

I couldn't have said that better myself. I can't imagine anything else being more fun than that.

Glad to have you here.

Stephanie

Lucy Michelle · Post by **Lucy Michelle** » Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:35 pm

Hi Jade, a warm welcome,

to the forum

JudyH · Post by **JudyH** » Sun Mar 16, 2008 10:17 pm

Welcome it is nice to have you here, and thanks for the input.

Jade (SO) · Post by **Jade (SO)** » Sun Mar 16, 2008 11:20 pm

Hello SilverLady!!!
Thank you so much for changing it for me, I really do appreciate it. And thank you so much for the welcome!
*hugs* hehe

Hi Stephanie!
Thanks so much for the warm welcome. It means a lot to finally be welcomed into something so amazing. I have talked to him, and he says he will be ready to join soon! Good news!!!
Lord knows he needs the support!

Hello Lucy Michelle!
Thank you so very much for the welcome. It is greatly appreciated!!!
I definitely feel, very very welcome here!

Hi Judy!
Thank you so very much! The welcome is definitely appreciated! <3<3

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Mar 17, 2008 7:40 am

Hi Jade,

to the forum.

TerriLynn · Post by **TerriLynn** » Mon Mar 17, 2008 11:13 am

Welcome to the group Jade. I do hope you find many new friends here, I know I have, and have felt very accepted by all here. Will you be in the chat some, I hope. We do have some good conversations there.

Terrilynn

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